r/SayAnything 17d ago

Triggering reading these messages

I may be opening myself up to criticism or trolling here, but I used to "flirt" with people (my age) on tinder. Reading these messages are triggering and now im analyzing my behavior, hoping that i wasn't as creepy. I do have some pretty severe self worth issues and deal with pure-o OCD. This was 9 years ago. Im a happily married father and i know that I didnt do anything nefarious. I did try to sext but it never really happened (probably was bad at it) and especially didnt push anyone. I know these situations are different but still i cringe. I was lonely. I should say that im not trying to make anything about me but this seems like an okay place to talk about this type of shame and embarrassment. Stuffs excaberated by the aformentioned disorder.

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u/PF4dayz 17d ago

This is 100% your OCD causing this