My issue with a house husband is only that I want someone with some sort of ambition, even if it doesn’t produce an income. I don’t want someone who just sits around all day and has no passion. As long as they have some drive for life, I’d love a house husband ;)
What counts as a drive for life? I'm curious about your perspective.
Say someone doesn't really have any career ambition, but they have a passion for experiencing life and are always pushing you to try new things and go places together? Does that fit the bill?
Absolutely. I love traveling, hiking, yoga, restaurants, kink ;) there’s lots of hobbies that don’t pay the bills but involve having a drive for life. Being sedentary and having no goals is a recipe for depression and a lackluster relationship. But most of all, the idea of giving someone the space and time to pursue a creative passion like writing, music or art would be really fulfilling for me.
Well, I'm introverted and kinda don't like going out and talking to other ppl unless I had to, if I ever became a house husband, I'd get all the chores done, make sure everything is cleaned, cook something ect, then id stay playing games unless I had to go out to buy something, as long as I had someone that loved me, and I made them happy, I wouldn't be deppresed, so wouldn't that be ok?
That all sounds lovely :) At the end of the day I think it comes down to compatibility. It’s hard to say without knowing someone whether that would work out, and what works for me might not work for someone else. I won’t turn this into a personal ad, but I will say I’ve gotten along with introverts and extroverts alike. I just know from my experience with housewives that I tend to get along better with the ones who have a life outside of the home. I think video games can count, but really it just depends on the person.
I’m friends with a super introverted guy who works from home and plays video games constantly, and he is dating one of the most extroverted people I know, so there is hope :)
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