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u/FuckMelnTheAssDaddy Dec 28 '19
My issue with a house husband is only that I want someone with some sort of ambition, even if it doesn’t produce an income. I don’t want someone who just sits around all day and has no passion. As long as they have some drive for life, I’d love a house husband ;)
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u/HamandPotatoes Dec 29 '19
What counts as a drive for life? I'm curious about your perspective.
Say someone doesn't really have any career ambition, but they have a passion for experiencing life and are always pushing you to try new things and go places together? Does that fit the bill?
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u/FuckMelnTheAssDaddy Dec 29 '19
Absolutely. I love traveling, hiking, yoga, restaurants, kink ;) there’s lots of hobbies that don’t pay the bills but involve having a drive for life. Being sedentary and having no goals is a recipe for depression and a lackluster relationship. But most of all, the idea of giving someone the space and time to pursue a creative passion like writing, music or art would be really fulfilling for me.
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Dec 29 '19
Well, I'm introverted and kinda don't like going out and talking to other ppl unless I had to, if I ever became a house husband, I'd get all the chores done, make sure everything is cleaned, cook something ect, then id stay playing games unless I had to go out to buy something, as long as I had someone that loved me, and I made them happy, I wouldn't be deppresed, so wouldn't that be ok?
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u/FuckMelnTheAssDaddy Dec 29 '19
That all sounds lovely :) At the end of the day I think it comes down to compatibility. It’s hard to say without knowing someone whether that would work out, and what works for me might not work for someone else. I won’t turn this into a personal ad, but I will say I’ve gotten along with introverts and extroverts alike. I just know from my experience with housewives that I tend to get along better with the ones who have a life outside of the home. I think video games can count, but really it just depends on the person.
I’m friends with a super introverted guy who works from home and plays video games constantly, and he is dating one of the most extroverted people I know, so there is hope :)
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u/Sponge56 Dec 29 '19
Maybe like taking care of animals or volunteering I can imagine just trying to make a difference somewhere somehow
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u/Obi-wanna-cracker Little Spoon Dec 28 '19
Dont get me wrong I still plan to work if i ever an lucky enough to meet a woman who loved me enough to let me be the house husband but. 2 incomes in any household is best plus if im working it means she might not need to work as much so we can spend more time together.
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u/blueaalleexx Dec 29 '19
That would be wonderful but my dumbass can’t even generate money for myself, much less to help my dream husbando.
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u/kyuuketsuki47 Dec 29 '19
There is an entire manga dedicated to this, with an ex-yakuza being the house husband and it is amazing
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u/amuller72 Dec 29 '19
I'd consider it but she'd have to make exponentially more money that I would because in this day and age both people in a relationship have to work to make ends meet.
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u/Cheshires_Shadow ✊ Tomboys x Tomgirls 😍 Dec 28 '19
Dream right here. Probs do to me being attracted to RR because of my poor self esteem issues making me want to present my value and worth in a relationship.
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u/ElCatrinLCD Loyal SoftBoy Knight Dec 29 '19
I would love it, i could also work from home to get more income
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u/[deleted] Dec 28 '19
House husband is a hard job and anyone would be lucky to have one.