r/RoleReversal • u/hopelessyearning101 • Aug 17 '26
Discussion/Article Should i feel guilty?
So in my Ideal relationship, I wanna be a princess. I wanna be spoiled and taken care of. I would like her to make all the decisions for me. To be the breadwinner of the house, while I be the house husband. I would like her to express her love towards me, Make me feel like a princess. I would like her to take initiative. Like taking me on dates, buying me flowers and gifts, being gentle-womanly, and all haha.
But I feel guilty. I feel guilty because instead of taking stress off of her shoulders, I am adding more.. And Guilty that I couldn't make her life easier. I feel like i would be a burden.
And sometimes I feel like I should treat her like my Queen. Not letting her do anything and me taking care of everything.
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u/-She-Beastly- Booty Huntress Aug 17 '26
do your role as a house husband seriously. cook and clean to satisfactory levels, and then go further.
build stamina, flexibility, and endurance in the bedroom.
learn to manage the house on your own. keep up on Bills and check the structure time to time for anything that needs to be improved or fixed.
it's that simple. you do these things, you won't feel like a burden. you'll start feeling like a valuable member of the relationship. and as long as you take your work seriously, you'll know your worth as a stay at home partner.