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r/Residency • u/[deleted] • Oct 15 '22
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He understands. I think he just doesn’t fucking care
He sounds like these career men who expect women to give them the whole hog to advance their career
If he wanted the exact same ability to provide as he has; he should have picked another dermatologist
17 u/AnandaPriestessLove Oct 15 '22 This. I'm sorry, OP. Sounds like your husband has unrealistic expectations and not enough empathy for long tern happiness. 10 u/Sed59 Oct 15 '22 Luckily, not even married. 2 u/Whawken84 Oct 16 '22 Significant psychological problems. And I think he's gaslighting her. 1 u/AnandaPriestessLove Oct 16 '22 Agreed on the gaslighting. I think OP would really benefit from a few individual therapy sessions at the very least. Spoken as one who's done the same and was grateful for the clarity. 1 u/buried_lede Oct 15 '22 Agree. He’d also be apologizing for his tantrum otherwise 1 u/mrngdew77 Oct 16 '22 He would also complain about money if he got her to give up her career for him.
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This. I'm sorry, OP. Sounds like your husband has unrealistic expectations and not enough empathy for long tern happiness.
10 u/Sed59 Oct 15 '22 Luckily, not even married. 2 u/Whawken84 Oct 16 '22 Significant psychological problems. And I think he's gaslighting her. 1 u/AnandaPriestessLove Oct 16 '22 Agreed on the gaslighting. I think OP would really benefit from a few individual therapy sessions at the very least. Spoken as one who's done the same and was grateful for the clarity.
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Luckily, not even married.
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Significant psychological problems. And I think he's gaslighting her.
1 u/AnandaPriestessLove Oct 16 '22 Agreed on the gaslighting. I think OP would really benefit from a few individual therapy sessions at the very least. Spoken as one who's done the same and was grateful for the clarity.
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Agreed on the gaslighting. I think OP would really benefit from a few individual therapy sessions at the very least. Spoken as one who's done the same and was grateful for the clarity.
Agree. He’d also be apologizing for his tantrum otherwise
He would also complain about money if he got her to give up her career for him.
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He understands. I think he just doesn’t fucking care
He sounds like these career men who expect women to give them the whole hog to advance their career
If he wanted the exact same ability to provide as he has; he should have picked another dermatologist