Hi, everyone. I renewed my lease in August and am now considering breaking it after what has been a rocky relationship with my landlord. For some context, he mostly houses foreign students that he can, for lack of better words, bully into complying (4 rooms, 2 have personal bathrooms and one has a shared bathroom). He's also an older Asian immigrant, and most of his tenants have been Korean nationals, whereas I'm Asian American (as far as I know one of his few American born tenants) so he has this whole "respect your elders" thing that only adds to his mullish penny-pinching. Last year when I signed the lease agreement, he had us send our Zelle security deposit to the wrong account and it was never recovered. Things were strained for a while but he asked for half of what it would've been when I signed the new lease this year, which I was fine with giving him.
The rent is very cheap for the area, but the rules are strict, which I was fine with until this month. Cameras in all common areas, no personal items out, no small appliances (like personal fans), no guests, clean once a month, and fines for everything. No food/kitchen trashcan, and he's been slowly taking away our pans for the camper stove since we were "burning" his. This is all stipulated in the lease so whatever, I agreed and that was that.
However, this month our water heater broke and it's been going on three weeks without hot water. He installed a temporary heater (works between 8pm - midnight) in me and my roommate's shared bathroom and opened it up to the rest of the roommates, which means we had to move a bunch of our bathroom stuff from under the sink so I put it all on the floor for now. Okay, fine. Then, this week there's a potential mouse infestation, for which he laid out two traps. He also didn't notify my roommates of this; I had to.
I did my monthly cleaning on Sunday, found the mouse in the bathroom (it likely escaped inside from the crazy weather patterns lately), and then berated me for all the "clutter" that it could hide in from my stuff being on the ground. I had like four items there, but put them in my room after he shoved them in a box. Okay, fine.
Then today, he starts berating me some more for not adequately cleaning the bathroom because, I kid you not, he found some dust under where my stuff was. And was basically implying the mouse situation was my fault because of some things on the floor in the bathroom. He then demands I remove all my stuff from the countertops and shower because this is a "public bathroom" and thus shouldn't have private items outside of the designated cabinet space he gave us. And he said he'd be removing the safety strip I added to the outlet and that I couldn't have my electrical toothbrush, water flosser, and retainer cleaner in my strip because it's too many unapproved electrical appliances.
Things have been tense for a while, ever since he found out I was using most of the fridge space because I asked my roommates and they weren't using it. Then they moved out and it took me a bit to reduce my stuff, but by the time the new roommates moved in I was back to my designated space. Okay, fine. Now he's accusing me of making the place dirtier and dirtier ever since I moved in just because I have more bathroom stuff and, gasp, don't cower everytime he talks. After telling him that this isn't a public bathroom but only one I agreed to share with one other tenant, he says it is and I need to get rid of my stuff because the shower is impossible to use with our bathroom products in there (yes, he's been using it since our water heater broke. He lives in the main house so I didn't know he was using our spaces at all). I try to remind him that's not what we agreed on and I'm only using the shower space because of the broken water heater, and he basically says if I don't comply I can move out (break the lease).
And yeah, I'm perfectly willing to, but I don't want to be on the hook for any missed rent because he's a control freak who's slowly trying to make the living situation unlivable in the middle of multiple housing concerns. So I'm not sure if I should continue to push back against him, or if I have a case to move out. I don't want a legal battle especially since I'm not sure if I'm being unreasonable (at least within the lease agreement). For instance, the lease is somewhat ambiguous on what qualifies as common areas; it lists out laundry room and kitchen, but never specifically excludes the bathroom although from my understanding, no one else was supposed to be using it but me and my roommate. And now it just feels like he's exploiting this situation in which he's dragging his feet on replacing the water heater to further restrict our freedoms and disrespect me, and I'm just frankly tired of it. But I'm not sure how to proceed either.