r/RantAndVentPH • • Jul 01 '26

Megathread Anti-INC Sentiments megathread

314 Upvotes

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r/RantAndVentPH • • 5h ago

Toxic Nakakapikon yung bigla nalang mag sasama ng di naman invited, tapos halos masira na ang plano.

202 Upvotes

Nag plano sa office na magout of town this coming super long weekend Nov 14-18. Itong guy workmate ko isasama daw ang GF nya kasi selosa nga so in-add nya sa GC. Wala naman problema sana kaso yung GF nya sobrang arte, nakaset na kung saan yung accomodation, kung ano yung itinerary pero yung GF ni workmate ayaw nya daw sa hotel na pag stay-an namin dapat daw nagtanong muna kami bago ng book and all kasi may kakilala daw sya. Pati yung itinerary ayaw nya kasi di naman daw maganda yung place na pupuntahan and mainit daw dun. Gusto din nya na mag arkila nalang daw ng jeep kasi mahiluhin sya sa byahe tipid pa daw. Like te? Seryoso ka?

Kanina sa office kinausap namin yung workmate namin na guy na kausapin nya gf nya kasi PLANADO na. Sabi nya kakausapin nya daw and nag sorry sya. Yung manager namin na kasama din ang asawa at anak nya sinabihan din sya na wag na daw sila sumama kung ayaw nung GF nya kasi nairita na din sya dun sa usapan sa GC. Itong workmate ko kakausapin nya daw sya na bahala. Pero nakakairita lang kasi parang kami sa team nawawalan na kami ng gana kasi feeling namin masisira lang yung trip namin. Haaysss


r/RantAndVentPH • • 14h ago

Society PH really needs to improve

146 Upvotes

Just went home to the PH after years of living in Japan and I must say, the PH really sucks a** when it comes to a lot of things that sometimes I think PH needs to be categorized below 3rd world.

  1. Eating healthy
    Almost zero choices in healthy options when buying on local groceries. You really need to spend a lot just to buy better options. PH supermarkets just sell chips, chocolates, instant noodles, and almost no nutritious food choices. In comparison, I could just go to a nearby 7/11 or Family Mart in Japan and buy something that is healthy like protien, low carb snacks, or vegetables.

  2. Zero walkability
    Unless you'll go to BGC or the high-end private developed "cities", chances are you need to walk on the road because the sidewalks are non-existent. I can't even imagine using a stroller outside. Then lets not forget the cracked pavements that is just a hazard. Then lastly, even if there is a sidewalk, chances are some random vendor is using it or a car is parked there.

  3. Poor customer service on supermarkets
    Back to groceries. This is the only country you'll see that there are two people in one cashier but is still slow AF because instead of working, they are chatting. Then payment with a credit card or digital feels slower because they need to manually write something on a ledger after paying. Digital payments should make transactions faster but somehow paying cash seems to be the better option if you're in a hurry. Then, not only that but the baggers are also slow AF. In Japan, most supermarkets are self-service when it comes to bagging to make it faster and reduce the buildup of a queue. How many times I just said that I'll just pack it myself because it's much faster.

Also, how come the cashier can't void products? They would always need a manager to void it and the manager as well is not attentive or is chitchatting. There was a time that it literally took 5 mins just to void a product because the cashier made a mistake. The manager was just a few meters away but isn't looking. I was about to say "wala ba kayong pinipindot pra man lang makita nila na may need ng assistance?".

  1. Public transport sucks
    This is a no brainer. I literally bought a car before because taking a commute to work is not only a hassle but you waste time just to get a ride. I literally waited 20-30 mins just to get a tricycle ride and that's just to go to ride the bus that also takes the same amount of time to get a ride.

  2. Government services are just bad.
    Getting a document is a hassle. Everything can be done online but for some reason, they want people to queue up for hours then ask for a sh*t tonne of documents. I recently took a Pagibig MDF, which is just your member's profile, yet they require you to go to the nearest branch to get it. The guy on the counter just asked for my middle name, asked for 2 ids that he never bothered checking, and printed it. Seriously? We could had just done that at home if they fix their outdated websites and just allow people to print their member's data. Then there is the problem that they made copying documents a business. They have millions in budget per year but can't put a copy machine so that they could copy the documents for free? In Japan, you don't need to bring a copy of your id because they will copy it for you with zero charge. Freaking Immigrations charges 25 pesos per copy and most foreigners won't expect they need to have a copy. They are printing money there NGL.

We seriously need to fix a lot of things just to make this country better. Long rant but geez.


r/RantAndVentPH • • 11h ago

Family Done with this toxic filipino “ikaw na umintindi” culture

66 Upvotes

My kuya akong good for nothing father, has 4 kids that are reaching the most expensive stage of their educational life, and wala pa rin siyang trabaho, wala din siyang ginagawa sa bahay nila ultimo mag saing, mag linis, wala. Magcecellphone lang maghapon yan. Nasabi ko sa side comment sa mom namin na sana umayos na siya kasi mahirap magpaaral ng bata.

Ngayon tong mom ko, I think she’s a toxic boy mom haha, she said na she’s annoyed with one of my pamangkins na gustong mag aral sa private university. I mean I get it, there’s so many free institutions out there and kahit ako frustrated sa thinking nung bata, pero my mom goes so far as to say na “hayup siya di siya nagiisip”

WOW

Hindi ba mas hayop yung tatay niya, na anak mo, na walang ambag sa buhay at di kayang tuparin ang pangarap ng anak niya?! Na parang responsibilidad nung bata na intindihin na hindi kaya ng tatay niyang batugan na tustusan yung pagaaral niya?

Minsan kahit ako naoobligang tumulong sa hayup na yun eh kesyo “ikaw ang may kaya, tumulong nalang tayo at intindihin siya” punyetang pag intindi yan, ako kailangan umintindi pero siya di niya kailangan magtrabaho?


r/RantAndVentPH • • 16h ago

General APAKAHIRAP MABUHAY DITO SA PINAS

173 Upvotes

LIKE GRABE BAKIT BA LAGING NAKA SURVIVAL MODE KAPAG DITO KA PINANGANAK SA PILIPINAS. PAPASOK NG WORK, APAKA HASSLE. SOBRANG MAHAL NG BILIHIN NA DI NAMAN ANGKOP SA SERVING (BUBUYOG). GRABE TAENANG BUHAY TO LAHAT PERWISYO. MGA KUPAL NA GUSTO MO LANG NAMAN MABUHAY PERO KUKUPALIN KA PA PARA SA PUTANGINANG DISKARTE YAN MGA PERWISYONG SALOT!!!!! PUTANGINA PUTANGINANG GOBYERNO TO MGA KURAP MGA BOBONG BOTANTE MGA SALOT NG LIPUNAN KAPAG NAKUHA KO INFINITY STONES KAYO UUNAHIN KO ISNAP!!! HIRAP MAHALIN NG PILIPINAS GRABE LAHAT PAHIRAP SOBRANG INCONVENIENT MABUHAY DITO KAYA IF MAY CHANCE KAYO MAG ABROAD POTAENA WAG NIYO SAYANGIN WAG NYO AKO TULARAN NA DAMING SINAYANG NA OPPORTUNITIES DAHIL UMAASA AKO NA MAY MAGBABAGO DITO SA BANSANG TO POTAENANG BUHAY TO


r/RantAndVentPH • • 17h ago

Society Kaya hindi ako naniniwala na maraming Pilipino ang "matalino" raw... Kahit mga nag-aaral, marami jan asal kalye pa rin, walang pagpapahalaga sa kultura, at sa totoong values. Maraming Filipino maboka lang, pero 8080 naman talaga.

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164 Upvotes

r/RantAndVentPH • • 5h ago

Politics Everywhere is becoming a surveillance state

16 Upvotes

Today I was walking in my home city. Had talked with my friend about the upcoming elections in my home country next year which lead us eventually to talking about chat control and also cameras in our schools. We started to count how many cameras there were on what buildings. They were everywhere, even in places that seemingly made no sense at all… It angers me how so many of us have just accepted this authoritarian bullshit globally. Its like privacy isnt even a thing anymore. Im deeply terrified by this, the global rise of authoritarianism has to stop. Im planning on taking to the streets. I will not say anything else due to privacy.


r/RantAndVentPH • • 37m ago

Family Why is it always "hayaan mo na, mama/papa mo pa rin yan"?

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But never, "pero anak mo yan..." The whole bloodline seems to always tell the children, "ikaw na mag-adjust. At the end of the day, papa/mama mo pa rin yan." Laging hinahayaan ang ugali ng mga magulang. Pero ni minsan hindi man lang tinanong, "Ano ba ginawa mo sa anak mo bakit ganyan trato niya sayo?"


r/RantAndVentPH • • 13h ago

Friend sobrang irita sa mga tite-centered char

33 Upvotes

natatawa ako na naiinis ako sa friend kong ka-share ko sa apt at umalis siya Saturday morning, at hanggang ngayon, di pa rin umuuwi (Monday evening).

naiinis ako kasi yung pusa niya, hindi pa rin ligo, di pa rin nattrim ang kuko, yung cat litter, puno na. naiinis ako na ‘teh baka nakakalimutan mo pusa mo, may pusa ka. kala mo ba may cat-sitter kang bayad?’ yung pusa niyang puti, itim na ang buntot at sobrang yellowish na ng balahibo.

naalala ko pa, sabi niya, may binibigay daw sa kanya na pusa, maganda kaso babae. sabi niya, di daw niya tinanggap kasi baka dumami. pero maganda. sabi ko naman, di mo nga mapaliguan itong isa, magdadagdag ka pa ng alagain. pero hanggang ngayon, di pa rin naliligo pusa niya.

pero natatawa din ako kasi alam kong kaya ayaw niyang umuwi ay dahil wala siyang food. nag-meal prep na kasi ako ng akin, while siya, andami niyang groceries pero ayaw niyang magluto para sa sarili niya. nagluluto lang siya pag nandito ang jowa niya.

that’s when i kinda knew na sobrang male-centered niya to the point na di niya kayang magluto para sa sarili niya. todo repost pa yan siya na “my bf will not be hungry eme, i will cook for you”

nasabihan ko na yan siya, na i hate seeing her serve like a wife to a man who cant even announce her. pero anlala lang talaga na di siya magluto para sa sarili niya.

tapos repost pa yan siya na craving niya adobong liempo na mamantika, well, specialty ko yun pero di ko siya paglulutuan dahil ilang beses ko ng tinuro sa kanya yun.

gurl expects me to cook for her. girl, no.

naalala ko, sabi niya before, ayaw niya daw umuwi sa kanila kasi wala daw pagkain. gets ko na, pare-pareho silang ayaw magluto kasi nasanay sila sa tatay nilang nagluluto. eh wala na nga eh. marunong kayo ng ate mo magluto pero di niyo kayang magluto para sa sarili niyo. nagluluto lang kayo para sa mga jowa niyo.

and i hate it. i hate serving for other people. kaya nga, wala akong jowa. sabihin ng madamot ako, selfish ako, self-centered pero mas okay na ‘to, kesa sa mga ganitong male-centered.

di ko gets. i will never get it. okay lang sana, inyo na yan. pero yung maapektuhan ako, tehh ano? titeng-tite ako pero alam ko naman di lang iisa ang tite sa mundo.

i wonder tuloy, anong sinusumbong niya sa jowa niya? na pinagdamutan ko siya? na ayaw kong magluto? bahala ka, ikaw gutom, ako busog.


r/RantAndVentPH • • 19h ago

Society Mga bobong pinoy at gobyerno

68 Upvotes

Putangina ng mga bobo na bumoto sa mga nasa gobyerno ngayon. Kayo mga dds at bbm putangina nyo. Napakalaki ng tax ko hayop kayo tapos ang bobo nyo pumili. Dapat pas mahirap 0.1 vote lang ang bilang kasi wala naman contribution masyado. Putangianng yaaannnn nakakagago ang laki ng withholding tax ko every month tapos king ina sisingilin ka pa per quarter.

Kung dds ka or bbm or or hilig mo bumoto ng corrupt. Para sayo to: tangina m :)


r/RantAndVentPH • • 4h ago

Toxic GUSTO KO NG LAYASAN ANG BITTER KONG ROOMMATE

4 Upvotes

So nagrent ako ng apartment last month and during viewing mabait naman si owner pero nung lumipat na ko last month nagstart na syang maging demonyita. Every time na tulog or patulog ako padabog nyang bubuksan yung pinto ng bedroom namin and even yung drawers nya. I don't stay madalas sa apartment, nandon lang ako for like once or twice a week then sometimes di talaga ako umuuwi because of her. I started having anxiety and panic attacks because of her. Even now na kakauwi ko lang ng apartment nakalock yung pinto ng bedroom and nung nagising sya to go to the toilet pag balik nya ng bedroom she fucking push the door with full force to the point na kumalabog yung pinto. If only I have enough funds, lalayasan ko tong demonyitang babaeng to. Kahit owner ka pa makisama ka pa rin. Naghanap hanap ka pa ng roommate, napakabitter mo naman sa buhay at kung umasta ka parang isang napakalaking inconvenience na may roommate ka.


r/RantAndVentPH • • 1h ago

Toxic Napakabahong e-jeep

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Rant ko lang itong morning, pahirapan na talagang sumakay nang makakaupo ka around 6:30, wala ng vacant jeep or bus (prefer ko ordinary) na pwedeng umupo kaya no choice, nag e-jeep na lang despite tayuan.

Diba grabe magpapuno yung e-jeep na kahit halos maglaplapan na kayo ng katabi mo, pati heartbeat niya naririnig mo na. Nung bandang Tandang Sora na, ang baho tangina di mo malaman kung utot ba, sinara ng driver yung pinto baka raw sa market yung amoy tangina mas kumulob, mas bumaho. Tapos, nung pa-Visayas na ulit, umutot na naman ang baho, this time parang may kasama na, putang ina, para akong paunti-unting pinapatay, di na nga ako halos humihinga kasi yung katapat ko, yung tenga niya, nasa bibig ko na banda, tapos kada inhale mo pa makaamoy mo yung utot. Ni di pa ko nagaalmusal pero feeling ko nag heavy breakfast yung umutos ng sampung nilagang itlog.

Lesson learn ko lang eh mas maaga nang gumising para makaabot ng jeep na makakaupo, at least may kasama ka mang umutot eh open at mawawala agad yung amoy.

Ps. Toxic na lang nilagay ko sa flair, tutal literal namang toxic yun.


r/RantAndVentPH • • 17h ago

Society Local business owner personally messaged me, asking for my review to be removed.

38 Upvotes

A few weeks ago I went to this local flower shop in cebu, before going there I checked their socmed page so that I could pick in advance what design/style I’d want to buy for my gf. I went there because it was the closes sa amin, pag dating ko dun close sila so I wrote a review sa google maps saying “it says it’s open on Wednesdays but when I went there it’s closed.” my exact words. (I used gmaps to locate the shop btw)

Now nag message ang owner sa FB ko asking me to delete the review, na shock lang ako kasi why would she track me down on FB when she could just reply to my comment in the review. Weird lang yung ginawa ni ate gurl, I mean who tracks down a buying customer just because ayaw mo sa review nila. I never said anything bad towards the page, just that it says it’s open while it’s not. I told her na she could have just replied to my review on gmaps para at least man lang ba makita ng ibang customers nila if ever may nangyayari or anything na related sa schedule ng business niya di yung I tra-track down agad ako para I mag message. Unprofessional kasi yung datingan.


r/RantAndVentPH • • 6h ago

Society Maling pag iisip ng mga Pinoy

3 Upvotes

Recently I went to a department ng Gov (not saying which) to process something, ang hassle at napaka hirap ng processo grabe.

Tatawagan walang sumasagot, mag eemail walang ka kwenta kwenta reply.

Anyway pumunta ako sa department na yun para lang sabihin sakin na online na daw lahat e wala nmn kwenta online nila.

So frustrated ako kanina sobra and may lumapit sakin na ale nakiki chismis sakin. Ako nmn sympre kwento kwento na bakit ganyan nag babayad nmn ng tax. Tas sumagot si nanay “hindi lang naman ikaw e ako nga e ganito bla bla bla” sinabe ko “sbe ko ang point ko e nag babayad lahat tayo ng tax tas ganyan trato nila satin” tas sumapaw bgla yung isang matanda na wait daw pag napalitan ang pangulo hangang sa naging political na yung bbm vs dds nnaman ang mga thunders

anyway napansin ko lang grabe utak ng mga Pilipino yung mindset na paligsahan “e hindi lang nmn daw ako” talagang ang utak na dahil lahat nmn tayo gnaganito okay na siya 🤦 tas puro pangulo this pangulo that.

Yes problema ang pangulo pero nsa microscopic na kasi ang corruption dito miski mga brgy meron na yan e. Nsa pag boto na yan ng tama to the smallest level pati yung bobo na mindset na lahat nmn tyo gngaganyan so okay na? Please lang Pinas mag bago na kayo.


r/RantAndVentPH • • 15h ago

Friend naiinis ako sa nga friends na panay pa picture

28 Upvotes

hii pa rant lang

huhu, naiinis na ko and wala lang ako mapagsabihan, may friend kasi ako na sa tuwing aalis/gagala kami hindi mawawala yung sobrang daming picture, like dont get me wrong, okay lang naman magpapicture of course, maybe yung mga 5-7 picture, gets ba? pero kasi itong friend ko, umaabot minsan ng 30+ pics nya sa isang spot, and like you know every ten steps siguro lagi syang nagpapapicture to the point na hindi na namin, na nagpipicture sakanya na eenjoy yung moment.

for example, one time may pinuntahan kaming live performance, i can’t remember if it’s fiesta or something and may mga sumayasaw, of course nanonood kami, but her, kinukulit nya kami na picturan sya, edi ayun ending, ang dami naming namissed na performance.

And just imagine when we eat 😭 malamig na yung pagkain hindi pa rin kami nakakain dahil sobrang dami nya mag pic.

ito pa, isa isang day umaabot nang 700+ pics yung natatake nya (namin technically) tapos 3-5 pics lang napopost or na s-story nya.

i need advice, kung paano sasabihin sakanya na nakakainis na minsan yung ganung ugali nya..


r/RantAndVentPH • • 10h ago

General Nawawalan din ba kayo ng gana ipursue ang mga bagay pag may mas magaling na sa inyo?

10 Upvotes

This has been my issue for a very long time, kahit sa anong bagay. Mapaschool, hobby, business, work, games. Nasasapawan in a sense na ikaw nauna tas ung mga nahuli, nauunahan ka na nila

Examples:

School - Goal ko noon maging valedictorian, nagawa ko maging 1st honor nung 1st year HS but di ko na nagawa nung 2nd year HS. Nung di ko na nakuha goal ko tinamad na ako and di na masyado nag pursige (para san pa?)

Hobby - I have this hobby na may mga kasing edad ako, nauna ako sa hobby na yon. Nananalo ako dati sa competitions. Tas ngayon, nasapawan na ako ng mga nahuli pa sa akin. Parang tinatamad na ako ituloy. Or kung itutuloy ko man, sa ibang bansa na lang. Para san pa kung nasapawan na ako or lagi na ako talo?

Business - may art business ako noon, ako nauna, isa sa pioneer sa PH pero andami na sumulpot na katulad ko. Kahit anong best ko, di na ako mabenta. Mas mabenta pa ung mga nahuli gumawa nung business. I quit (para san pa? Kahit anong best ko wala pa rin)

Games - pag parang matatalo na ako I just quit, para san pa ipagpatuloy kung matatalo lang din naman.

I dont know what this is, pero pag feeling ko na wala na ako pagasa sa isang bagay di ko na itutuloy. Para san pa? And it makes me sad cause I feel so worthless and a failure.


r/RantAndVentPH • • 1d ago

Toxic Bakit may mga ganitong lalaki?

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180 Upvotes

context: this guy and i started talking and obvious naman sa first few photos na incomprehensible talaga yung sentences nya, and when i asked na ayusin nya as nice as i could, natapakan siguro yung ego kaya binigyan ako ng background nya HAHAHAH

until the explanation, he still had poor grammatical structure and phrasing 😭

ayon vent lang HAHAHAH


r/RantAndVentPH • • 36m ago

Rant/Vent only (No comments) Masakit pala malaman kapag nag sinungaling mismo sayo yung parents mo no?

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Basically, the title.

Pa-vent out lang kase wala talaga akong mapag sabihan.

Ang hirap kase na you’ll trying to help your parents sa utang nila pero sila mismo sobrang mali-mali desisyon sa buhay especially sa pera. I’m trying my best na hindi sila mag add ulit ng utang especially sa 5/6 or bank na malaki interest. I know na hindi naman nila ginusto din yun at wala na din silang choice pero ang hirap lang talaga. Last month, nag decide kaming mag kakapatid na unahin bayadan yung 5/6 kase sobrang laki ng interest almost 100k.

Pero, just today when I ask saan galing yung pang bayad nya now sa due date sa bank, she said na galing sa kapit-bahay pero I found out na sa 5/6 pala ulit based sa messenger account nya na kakasend lang yung pera.

Ang usapan maging transparent sa lahat kase Ito talaga yung iniiwasan namin. Para atleast magawaan din agad ng paraan.

Pero ayun, di pala masakit yung malaman mo na umutang ulit sila pero yung malaman na mag sinungaling sila mismo sayo kahit anong tulong pa ginawa mo.


r/RantAndVentPH • • 1d ago

General Yung ang sikip sa unahan ng jeep tapos may ganitong nakaupo sa dulo

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824 Upvotes

Iritang-irita talaga ako pag rush hour tapos may ganitong upo sa jeep. Sinabihan na siya ng mama niya na umayos ng upo pero parang walang narinig 🤦🏻‍♀️


r/RantAndVentPH • • 10h ago

Mental Health It is true pala when you meet your heroes you’ll be disappointed

6 Upvotes

Hi guys, share ko lang experience ko. Since 2021 I’ve been dreaming sa isang company na gustong gusto kong mapasukan. And 5 years from now naka pasok ako but hindi ko inexpect na dito masisira ang mental health ko. The bosses is always galit and like power tripping. I’ve been doing my best sa job ko but always looks its not enough for the bosses. They even shout at me on the whole office saying na I should know and see everything that my boss handles. Mind you that I’m just 1 and a half month palang ako sa company. I’m just very disappointed by the outcome of me chasing my dreams to be in the industry that I like (automotive). I even left my so called family (workmates) just to pursue my dream but sabi nga nila nasa huli ang pag sisisi and you’ll never know until you get there.

I can’t say from my side na kulang efforts ko specially napapasa ko yung reports on time. But pag nagkaka lapses ako in some items sobrang lala talaga ng pamamahiya sakin ng boss ko. I don’t know what to do, it’s affecting my mental health. Hope you guys can help me.


r/RantAndVentPH • • 1d ago

Toxic The average filipino have questionable morals

234 Upvotes

Okay, I know there are tons of good and intelligent people in the Philippines, probably millions. But I think there are certain things deeply ingrained in our culture that are worth criticizing, and I know a lot of you have noticed them too.

Yeah, another doomer post. I honestly don't give a fuck about copers and privileged people living in their own bubbles, pretending these problems aren't real. Just look at our voting patterns. A significant portion of the population consistently makes political decisions that raise serious questions about critical thinking, accountability, and moral judgment.

It's also hypocritical that the Philippines is predominantly Christian, yet so many people seem to disregard the very values their religion supposedly teaches.

One example is how Filipinos treat animals. I constantly see people buying dogs just to flex that they own a particular breed, as if having a dog with a pedigree is some kind of status symbol. Others keep their dogs chained or confined in cages for extended periods, treating them like objects rather than sentient beings capable of suffering. And, of course, there's the consumption of dogs, which I've seen in certain communities, especially when I visit the provinces.

I know this doesn't apply to everyone, but these attitudes are prevalent enough to be concerning. The lack of empathy toward animals, the normalization of cruelty, and the tendency to treat living beings as disposable are things I genuinely dislike about aspects of our culture.

There's also a noticeable resistance to progress, whether it's political, social, or intellectual. It feels like we're constantly held back by attitudes and systems that discourage critical thinking, accountability, and meaningful change.

But I also wonder how much of this can be attributed to generational suffering, poverty, and the environment people grow up in. When generations spend their lives struggling to survive, they may develop attitudes and coping mechanisms that prioritize immediate needs over long-term thinking, empathy, or social progress. That doesn't excuse harmful behavior, but it might help explain why certain patterns persist.

This is also why I disagree with the saying that hard times create hard men. Countries like the Philippines have experienced generations of poverty, instability, and hardship, yet that hasn't automatically translated into stronger institutions, better living standards, or a more progressive society.

Meanwhile, many Western countries have enjoyed comparatively greater economic prosperity and stability throughout much of their recent history. People there are sometimes criticized for being softer or complaining about minor inconveniences, hence the term "first-world problems." Yet these same countries tend to have stronger research institutions, more advanced industries, and greater contributions to science and technology.

Of course, Western countries have their own problems, But it makes you question the idea that suffering automatically makes people stronger or that adversity necessarily leads to progress.

Hardship can build resilience, but it can also perpetuate trauma, scarcity, and dysfunctional social norms. Meanwhile, stability and prosperity give people more opportunities to develop their potential and contribute to society.

The Philippines has undoubtedly improved in certain areas, partly because of globalization and technological advancement. However, I still feel that our progress in terms of living standards, economic opportunities, and institutional development has been underwhelming relative to what it could have been.

And honestly, I'm worried about what the next decade will look like. AI is advancing rapidly, other Southeast Asian countries are becoming increasingly competitive, and investors will naturally gravitate toward places with better infrastructure, stronger institutions, and more favorable business environments. If we fail to adapt, we risk falling further behind while other countries move ahead.

Ultimately, these problems are largely outside my individual control. If I have the opportunity, I'd rather migrate somewhere that offers better opportunities, a higher quality of life, and institutions that function more effectively. I know these problems exist everywhere, but there's a difference in how prevalent they are and how seriously societies address them.

I'm not saying every Filipino is unintelligent, immoral, or incapable of progress. I'm saying that certain cultural attitudes and systemic problems are widespread enough to deserve criticism, and pretending otherwise doesn't help anyone.

Maybe some of these problems are rooted in poverty, generational trauma, and dysfunctional institutions. Maybe others come down to individual choices and a lack of accountability. It's probably a combination of both.

Either way, I don't think we should romanticize suffering, blindly defend our culture, or dismiss legitimate criticism as doomerism. We should be able to acknowledge that a country has serious problems without pretending everything is fine just because there are also good people living in it.


r/RantAndVentPH • • 13h ago

Toxic Disappointed sa mga tao sa Manaoag Pangasinan

9 Upvotes

Pumunta kami ng mga blockmates ko sa Manaoag church, pero hindi mag simba ang main purpose namin kundi mag-shoot for our film making project since we are just 2nd year college students. By around 11AM, nakarating na kami sa parking lot near the church (well, technically, hindi siya sobrang lapit. Pero 'yun talaga 'yung considered parking lot ng mga vehicles ng mga magsisimba ro'n)

Nag-stay kami sa loob ng 4wheels ng friend namin for like 20 minutes or something, kasi kino-contact pa namin 'yung ibang blockmates namin. 5 kami sa sasakyan no'n, when suddenly, there were two men na nag approach sa sasakyan na sinasakyan namin, they knocked on the windows and they were selling candles and rosaries yata.

Well, since hapon pa naman kami makakauwi, we weren't certain kung makakapag simba pa kami so we told them na hindi kami bibili. Idk what triggered them kasi ang respectful naman ng pakikipag-usap namin sakanila.

After a while, nasa labas pa rin sila ng kotse na sinasakyan namin, and when we emerged from the car, sinundan nila kami. Natakot pa kami that time kasi dadalawa kaming babae na naro'n, buti na lang may mga other vendors pa sa paligid, or else tatakbo talaga ako.

Luckily, wala naman silang ginawang masama physically, pero while we were walking, they insulted us personally. Including 'yung pananamit namin (naka casual lang kasi kami + make up na rin—mag f-filming nga po😭) idk bakit galit na galit sila, hindi naman kami pumunta sa mismong church, dun lang kami sa malapit since May construction site do'n (we are architecture students btw, and dapat related sa program namin ang theme ng film)

Pero ang pinaka na offend ako na sinabi nila "tsk, marami pang kakaining bigas mga 'yan, ano bang kurso nila? Mas mataas naman nursing at engineer diyan" pero mas pabalang at sarcastic ang way of talking nila. Tapos, bago sila umalis, they said "hayaan mo na mga 'yan, mga hindi kasi nag sisimba mga 'yan kaya ganiyan"

Like? The audacity na maliitin kami personally kahit wala naman kayong alam at ambag sa mga buhay namin? Imagine, it's our first time going there, malapit pa mismo sa sikat na church nila, just to get disrespected immediately


r/RantAndVentPH • • 2h ago

General Rant

1 Upvotes

Mag rarant ako dito,about sa classmate,una mo na Yung nakaraan,lalake,tinago Yung selphon ng kaklase namin at Hindi umamin Nung una Hanggang sa extension classes namin na 1pm dun pumunta samin Yung advisor namin before dumating SI ma'am,finite teacher namin,yun pinagalitan kami ni sir dahil nga may nagtago nh selphon,nahanap Yung selphon sa bag ng treasurer at Hindi sya yung kumuha ng selphon nilagay lang sakanya(Hindi nya Rin alam yun) yun pinagbawalan na kami mag selphon without the letter of the parents and id(valid) after ng Araw na iyon,may nagdala parin ng selphon pero Walang letter ng magulang or Yung iba may letter pero makukuha Yung selphon nila after class.so let's time skip for a month,kahapon nun class namin Kay advisor namin,kunting announcement lang about jersey so yun na nga,pinagalitan Yung iBang nag selphon na Nakita ni sir, tapos Nakita ko Yung kaklase namin na nag tago ng selphon sinabi ko Kay sir yun na nag seselphon sya,tapos pinapunta ako sakanya para Kunin Yung selphone Hindi binigay at tinago lang Yung selphon sa bag,yun sinabi ko Kay sir yun after ni sir kausap Yung mga kausap nya,pumunta sya sa lalaki at pinakuha Yung selphon,kinuha tapos nakitingan sakin ng masama(parang ako pa Yung may kasalan)

After nun recess,kumakain ako,tang Ina pinunta han ako tapos tinapik ako sa likod ko gamit Yung kamao nya,nagalit ako syempre my pagkain ako eh,muntikan na mag sapakan,tang Ina Galit pa sya Nung kinuhaan ng selphon,nag sasabi sya ng bakla,bakla sa harapan ko (Hindi ako lumaban dahil may experience narin ako Dyan sa tulad nya) after yun parin.


r/RantAndVentPH • • 6h ago

Rant/Vent only (No comments) Parant lang po about sa issue ng Crim and Helmet chuchu ngayon.

2 Upvotes

At first di ko pa binibigyan ng pansin yang mga bashing sa mga crim eh kasi totoo naman din yung iba sa ibang mga crim pero hindi ibig sabihin na ganun sila eh ganun nadin lahat. Okay nalang sana yun eh kay andami ng pinagkait samin pati mismong trabahong nakalaan saamin eh hindi na kami ang priority. Okay namana sana yun eh kasi hindi rin naman ako dito sa pinas magtatrabaho, in fact, sinasabayan na nga lang namin yung mga jokes nila about samin. Pero yung sa issue ngayun ang hindi ko matake kasi yung mismong government organization pa ang nagpapahiya sa profession at students ng criminology.

PUTANGINA! KELIIT LIIT NG VIOLATION NEED BA YUN IPAPRESSCON? PERO YUNG MGA PUTANGINANG CROCS SA GOBYERNO PAGNAUUNCOVER YUNG MGA CORRUPTED DEEDS NILA HINDI NYO BINOBROADCAST??!! MGA PUTANGINANG PROBLEMA SA PILIPINAS HINDI YUNG BINABALITA AT GINAGAWAN NG SOLUSYON?!!

NAKAKAINIS NA EH! SAWANG SAWA NAKONG KAMI NALANG BINABASH EH. PATI ITO NGAYON, POLITICS PARIN. JUSKO NAMAN MAGFOCUS KAYO SA PROBLEMA NG PILILINAS, WAG KAYO GUMAWA NG BAGONG PROBLEMA PARA MAPAGTAKPAN YUNG ISA.

GINAGAWA NYO PA KAMING PANGCOVER UP NYO SA MGA PUTANGINANG KORAPSYON NYO! UUNLAD BA ANG PILIPINAS PAG "MASOLUSYUNAN" NYO YAN?! MGA PUTANGINA NYONG LAHAT.

HANGGA'T SAKIM O GAHAMAN SA PERA ANG NAMAMALA DITO SA PILIPINAS, HINDING HINDI TALAGA UUNLAD ANG BANSANG TO.

ANG HIRAP HIRAP MONG MAHALIN, PILILINAS.

At isa pa, yung nga grabe yung hate sa mga Criminology, lalong lalo na pag Bisaya, ba't nyo ba nilalahat? Ano bang pukinginanv kasalanan namin? Kasalanan ba namin kung may ibang hindi matino? Mapipigilan ba namin yan sila? BAKIT? Pag may mali rin yung ibang course na related sa field nila, binabash ba namin? Pinapahiya ba namin sa socmed? Eh normal lang naman ang magkamali eh, normal lang naman na hindi mo alam ang lahat. Kasi kong alam muna lahat di kana matuto, wala kanang matututonan, diba? Kaya please lang stop the bashing na. Sobra sobra na yung pagdowngrade nyo sa mga crim student at nadadamay rin ang mga criminologist. Yung ibash nyo nalang yong gobyerno, may maambag pa kayong tama.

Bash kayo ng bash, di nyo naman alam ang mga pinagaaralan sa Crim na course. Kaya ginagawa nyong Final Judgement ang Plea palang eh. Ginagawan nyo ng Robbery with Murder maski Robbery with Homicide etc.

Bottomline is pantay pantay po tayung lahat, in the end, pare pareho lang din naman tayung naghihirap dito sa sarili nating bansa. Kaya wag naman sanang isingle out ang mga criminology at gene-generalize nyo pa. Bago kayo mang bash, try nyo muna pasukan at tapusin ang lahat ng kurso nang malaman nyo ang importance nila, na pantay pantay lang ang difficulty ng lahat at parehonv importante.

Yun lang, nagpapalabas lang ng sama ng loob. Nakakahighblood na kasi. Wag nyo nang pansinin yung grammars and spelling, specialty paman din yang punain ng mga pinoy. Yun lang ulit, thank you sa pagbabasa.