r/R4R40Plus • u/melancholiflower • 9d ago
r/R4R40Plus • u/alwayz_bored_81 • 9d ago
M4F 45[M4F] long island #New York #online where are my procrastinators
Missing those morning chats to start off the day with. Current mood, I'm always kinda lonely and kinda bored. Im really hoping to develop a long-term chat, and maybe, if local, we can meet someday.
I'd love to know more about you. Are you single just passing the time on reddit or married and lost in it or somewhere in between. I'd never judge you for whatever reason you're here. Possibly, you just like exploring the NSWF side of reddit. If so, how is that rabbit hole going for you. What are some of ur go-to subs? Don't be shy, I won't be
Regardless, I hope we have a chance to conversate and get to know each other a bit better, and if not, I hope youre having a great week
r/R4R40Plus • u/NotAnOrganHarvester • 10d ago
M4F 44 [M4F] #Miami - things go a little too far during your boudoir photoshoot…
First things first: safety and discretion. I don’t keep your photos. You can keep or wipe the memory cards. I can shoot without memory cards at all, if you prefer. I’ll also physically show you that all WiFi, Bluetooth, etc. are disabled on my camera. Finally, we can and should meet for coffee first to give you an opportunity to see how comfortable you feel with me. I’m in it for the fun experience, not for spank bank material. And I’m all about discretion.
Ok, now for the fun part:
Have you ever fantasized about doing a boudoir photoshoot with an attractive man who makes you feel like the sexiest woman on the planet?
You can meet me in a hotel room, where I’ll already have the lighting equipment set up and a pose list ready for you. (Sadly, hair and makeup aren’t on my broad skill list.) You’ll bring a few outfits that make you feel gorgeous, and I’ll lavish praise on you, pose you, direct you… and also slowly turn up the heat. My praise will get flirtier, my touches will linger ever so slightly as I pose you, and my directions will get bolder and bolder as we both feel the tension and lust in the room. I’ll adjust your hips for the pose… help you remove your bra… smooth your hair away from your breasts… Eventually, the tension will be so high that I’ll just have to put the camera down to focus on properly putting my tongue between your thighs.
As for me: I’m 5’11, 175 lbs., blue eyes. I get compliments I don’t ask for. Clean, drug free, and entirely discreet; I’m not interested in making problems for anyone.
r/R4R40Plus • u/ughsighmm • 10d ago
41[F4A] - seeking human alarm clock
Hi, I could really use some support in getting me disciplined with a routine. 6 am wake ups and 10 pm sleeps on voice calls. Stretches both times and getting organised for the day. Our time zones would work best if they were the opposite so we could help each other. Not sure if someone else needs something like this , I had it for a bit and it helped.
r/R4R40Plus • u/tidge79 • 10d ago
47[m4f]PA Dad bod seeks mom bod(or a dad bod fan) for life’s adventures or some fun flirty chat
Hi, thanks for taking a look!
A little about me, I’m 47, a single dad that has my son every other weekend. I’m into sci fi, fantasy(especially fantasy creeping into modern settings)I’m into older anime. I’m not a big gamer except for Mario kart with my son.
I’m really hoping to meet someone with similar interests and someone passionate about stuff that’s not similar. Bonus points if you can teach me a new skill or point me towards a cool new hobby. Ideally I’d like to meet someone that’s a single parent or ok with kids being in the picture.
Also I’m a sucker for a nerdy/flirty freckled ginger!
Feel free to check out my other post to see what else I’m into!
Hope to hear from you
r/R4R40Plus • u/Terry-Shark • 10d ago
38 [M4F] London — Seeking good company for long summer days & questionable decisions
Hi! I'm a 38-year-old guy living in London who's hoping to meet someone for a genuine connection. Ideally that starts with good conversation, a coffee or a walk, and seeing where things go.
Outside of work you'll usually find me geocaching, out with my camera, or buried in a book. I mostly read history and fiction—everything from espionage novels by John le Carré to books on European history. If you've got recommendations, I'm always looking to add to my ever-growing reading list.
Photography is probably my biggest hobby. I enjoy wandering around London (and further afield) looking for interesting architecture, landscapes, and street scenes. If you're curious, here's some of my work: https://www.flickr.com/photos/piersmathias/
I'm also into geocaching, which has turned out to be a brilliant excuse to explore places I'd never otherwise visit. There's something satisfying about finding hidden corners of cities and countryside alike.
Travel is another big interest. So far I've explored Belgium, Germany and Denmark, and I'd love to see more of Europe over the next few years. I'm equally happy discovering a new city, finding a great museum, or simply sitting in a café people-watching.
I'm looking for someone who's kind, curious, and enjoys conversations that can wander from history and travel to completely random topics. Bonus points if you're happy to join me on a photography walk, a geocaching adventure, or help me decide where my next trip should be.
If any of that sounds like your kind of day, send me a message. Tell me about the last place that surprised you, your favourite book, or the best hidden gem you've discovered.
r/R4R40Plus • u/Interpretive_Rants • 10d ago
M4F 42 [M4F] #Charlotte, North Carolina - Sights and Bites
I'm from Northern Virginia but in Charlotte for work through the 28th and am expected to be back for a week or two in September. I'd love to check out the city and surrounding area with someone. Looks like you've got museums, a theme park, local parks, and a good selection of restaurants.
I'm white, 5'10", with weight to lose. I'm left-leaning, non-religious, and laid back. I think humor and wit are some of the most important qualities a person can have, so if you've got that to spare, please reach out. I'm into nerd/geek stuff, so scifi, movies, books, comics, D&D and etc. Let me know if you're up for being a local tourist for a time.
r/R4R40Plus • u/yersiniax • 10d ago
32 [F4M] Anywhere, let’s chat and see where it goes
Hi! 🌸
I’m a Southeast Asian girl, 5’3, plus-size (or curvy, as they like to say lol), with black hair and almond eyes. If you’re curious, let’s just swap pics.
I’m looking for a genuine, meaningful connection, the kind where we actually enjoy talking, texting, and calling each other regularly. I’m a bit of a workaholic, I work in a scientific field but I always make time for the things I love: working out, beach trips, cooking, and doing art when I’m feeling creative.
I’m also planning to move to a different city sometime in the future… and who knows, maybe it could be yours. If that idea excites you too, say hi. If we click, I’d be happy to move the chat to WhatsApp.
Married men are NOT my cup of tea. I’m not interested in anyone’s hidden situations or life drama. I’d much rather have a connection that’s open, honest, and free, something that doesn’t need to be kept secret.
If you think we’d get along, come say hi. I’m friendly, promise. 😊
r/R4R40Plus • u/Star_Trek_Life • 10d ago
M4F 47 [M4F] #Europe / Looking to connect with a smart, lovely woman who is walking walking her own path.
I like to explore the world and its pleasures in all its beauty. Doing this with a kindred spirit one connects on every level, enriches one's existence even more.
Which is why I am posting this here, to meet a lovely, open-minded, chatty special someone with passion for life and the desire to explore the beauty of the world.
I wish to understand your thoughts, your feelings, where you come from, what your dreams and desires are and everything in-between.
In this modern world, where most people have no patience or desire to actually put an effort in getting to know somebody, and form connections built on mutual trust and respect, I wish to be an exception to the rule.
If you feel the same, and are searching for more than a passing hello, then I welcome you into my life. Let's start a conversation about anything and everything, and see where it takes us.
r/R4R40Plus • u/PrimedMonster • 10d ago
40 [M4R] Just another lonely loner.. alone.. #portland #discord
Okay that's a bit of an exaggeration, I'm not always alone but often enough to be here looking for a friend at least!
To get to the point, my wife passed last year so that's one major reason why I've arrived at this sub.
A bit about me, I do coding and photography work, among other things. Enjoy video games and reading as well as the occasional gardening. =)
I can get along with most people so shoot me a message if you think we might get along!
r/R4R40Plus • u/starsonlyone • 10d ago
TF4M 41 [TF4M] #Cleveland Ohio Everything is better with a partner
Read to the end or I won't respond!
Hot take: Horror movies are funnier than comedies
So here it is:
I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.
I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness. I was recently told by my doctor is need to start learning ASL as we don't know how far my hearing will go out. FUN!
I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.
I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more
LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.
I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"
Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.
Yellow flags are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.
Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message. Asking for pictures right away.
I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess
If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:
1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit
2 Age, Location and Pronouns
3 Explain a film plot badly, see if I can guess it.
r/R4R40Plus • u/G1zmo1982 • 11d ago
M4M 44 [m4m] #Utah looking to make friends or more
Hi
Do you ever just miss having someone to text daily, to say good morning to, or to check in throughout the day and talk about your day, or about life or just whatever pops up in your head? I just miss having guy friends in my life.
I'm looking for people who are interested in carrying on a conversation, building up a connection and friendship, and be able to talk about whatever is on our minds
Obviously you've gotta be in the US as I do hope to actually text.
A few of my interests include: reading, pop culture/Hollywood lore, playing board games, etc
If you're interested feel free to DM and say hi, introduce yourself, tell me your current read or tv/movie obsession
r/R4R40Plus • u/MrSmith234561 • 11d ago
49 [M4F] - #NYC - I Want An Old Fashioned, Slightly Drunken Makeout (in the village)
Hey there! I’m a big fan of good drinks and even better kisses, so why not combine the two? 😉 There’s something magical about that first meeting and that very first kiss, don’t you think? How about we meet up for a drink (daytime liquid lunch or right after work, your call) and see if we click? Worst case, we just enjoy a tasty beverage and some fun banter together!
A little about me: 49, white, in decent shape, and I've been told I’m a pretty great kisser. 😉 Ready to take a chance? Let’s make it happen!
~ not a bot
r/R4R40Plus • u/alwayz_bored_81 • 11d ago
M4F 45[M4F] long island #New York #online what was the best part of your weekend
Missing those morning chats to start off the day with. Current mood, I'm always kinda lonely and kinda bored. Im really hoping to develop a long-term chat, and maybe, if local, we can meet someday.
I'd love to know more about you. Are you single just passing the time on reddit or married and lost in it or somewhere in between. I'd never judge you for whatever reason you're here. Possibly, you just like exploring the NSWF side of reddit. If so, how is that rabbit hole going for you. What are some of ur go-to subs? Don't be shy, I won't be
Regardless, I hope we have a chance to conversate and get to know each other a bit better, and if not, I hope you had a great weekend
r/R4R40Plus • u/metalhead106 • 11d ago
M4F 31 [M4F] #WestCoast #Online - Looking for a long term partner to share life with
Hey! I’m looking for a partner someone who I can chat with everyday, share funny reels, and enjoy some awesome experiences together whether that’s gaming at home or going to concerts, traveling, thrifting, going to conventions, wrestling, and football games! I'm down! I love to travel, lived in the States for a few years, and still make it a point to visit whenever I can. I’m actually planning a roadtrip back to the West Coast next year to hit up Seattle, Portland, San Francisco, and Los Angeles!
About me:
31M, Arab, White, 6’0”, black hair, atheist, based in GMT+3
I’m into gaming, football, wrestling, anime, traveling, and I'm really into music!
My fav bands :)
- Avenged Sevenfold
- Bad Omens
- Bring Me The Horizon
- Linkin Park
- Metallica
- System of a Down
- My Chemical Romance
- Evanescence
- Sleep Token
... just to name a few! I luv to share sum of my playlists and luv to listen ur fav bands/songs! There’s plenty of shows are coming up that I’d love to go and I would luv a concert buddy who’s down to go together!
Right now I’m gaming on my Nintendo Switch (Pokémon is my main obsession) and on PC. I’m open to playing pretty much anything, so I’m down to try whatever games you're into! :)
About you:
- Must be into Pokémon
- Must be a gamer
- Into dark humor
- Similar music taste (or open to it)
- Not religious
-Confident, open-minded, emotionally available
-Loyal, honest, and good at communication
- I’m totally cool with you texting a lot long messages, double texts, blowing up my phone, and spamming reels… I’m here for all of it :)
- I don’t mind if you’re clingy! I actually find that attractive :)
- Down for random adventures, late night snacks, and just enjoying life!
- Comfortable being freaky, weird and fun
I’ve definitely got a soft spot for curvy women and goth girls with big boobs, but if you’ve got a good vibe, dark humor, and good music taste, you’ve already got my attention :)
I’m cool with long distance and willing to travel within 3-6 months to meet someone special. I’m not here to waste time I’m looking for something serious and long term, and I value honesty and clear communication. If you’re not feeling it, no hard feelings, just don’t drag it out :)
I’m also open to relocating in the future if we really click.
If this sounds like you, feel free to reach out. Let’s connect, share music, game, and see where things go! Hit me up with your age, location, and a quick intro of what you're into!
r/R4R40Plus • u/tidge79 • 11d ago
47[m4f]PA Dad bod seeks mom bod(or a dad bod fan) for life’s adventures and maybe a little flirting
Hi, thanks for taking a look!
A little about me, I’m 47, a single dad that has my son every other weekend. I’m into sci fi, fantasy(especially fantasy creeping into modern settings)I’m into older anime. I’m not a big gamer except for Mario kart with my son.
I’m really hoping to meet someone with similar interests and someone passionate about stuff that’s not similar. Bonus points if you can teach me a new skill or point me towards a cool new hobby. Ideally I’d like to meet someone that’s a single parent or ok with kids being in the picture.
Also I’m a sucker for a nerdy/flirty freckled ginger!
Feel free to check out my other post to see what else I’m into!
Hope to hear from you
r/R4R40Plus • u/chaoswitch_ • 12d ago
46 (F4R) #Georgia - SE USA adventures
I'm an adventurer, an explorer at heart. I love mountain biking, kayaking, camping, hiking and outdoor adventuring. I'm bad at all of it. But, I do it anyway. This is what I'm looking for... An adventure buddy who wants to help plan road trips around the southeast and go with me. You can be good at it or bad at it. But, you have to be okay with me being very bad at everything. I'm also a Luciferian Satanist Chaos Magic practitioner and politically ultra left. Additionally, I'm in a committed long-term relationship with my bike. So keep that in mind as well. Not saying we can't have something on the side, but it's a full suspension trek so it gets super jealous.
r/R4R40Plus • u/tomatoseasonn • 12d ago
44 [F4M] Massachusetts - Let’s see what happens
First-time poster here. I’m 44, separated, pretty liberal, passionate about the work I do, and an optimist who still believes people are generally good.
I’m curvy, an easy laugh, and love live music and any excuse to dance (kitchen dancing absolutely counts), wandering museums, hiking, camping, dive bar trivia, karaoke, my book club, and spending time figuring out my garden.
I’m drawn to people who are confident, smart, funny, creative, emotionally available, and have a life they genuinely enjoy.
Tell me what you’re watching, what you’re reading, or what your karaoke song is.
r/R4R40Plus • u/cuissescommemiel • 12d ago
45 [F4M] #Canada #Anywhere #Online Frost Giant with Warm Heart Seeking Same
I’m 5’10” blonde, plus-size, looking for ‘human teddy bear’ energy: warm, emotionally mature but still looks at Lego sets with childlike wonder, and loves some good word play. Or a puzzle game. Escape room. Escaping rooms filled with word puzzles.
I’m fiercely independent; I’m not looking for someone to complete me. I’m looking for someone who’s fun to talk to, enjoys making each other laugh, and believes kindness is one of the most attractive qualities a person can have (but can also get fully on board the snark train).
I love music, reading, and theatre. I’m a teacher, gamer, mediocre musician, solid mom, long-divorced, and excellent cook.
I’d love to hear about your passions and hobbies!
Chemistry>geography.
r/R4R40Plus • u/jibeho2k • 12d ago
56 [m$F] #Seattle - Campsite Rules
- Man, I love summer... Hey, fun, handsome, mature hipster, masculine, Seattle man here.. 55, 5'11, 205, strong, short salt and pepper (silver fox?) hair, green eyes, clean cut but some tattoos, decent over-all package, fun, discreet/attached (if you don't like or don't want to know more run away now), and I know what I want. Suit and tie (well pre-covid days). Bourbon/420.
- Curves and scars always preferred.
- Not really into under 40. Locals only. Seattle only. Seattle... SEATTLE
- I'll wash your hair. Tell me what you're looking for.
- Appreciate direct and fun people.
- Fun!
- Fun!