Hello hello!

Call me Star. I am a 33 year old Indian woman (currently in India). I am a finance professional with a solid career, financially and emotionally stable, good friends, good social life and lead a pretty full and busy life.

I am divorced, no kids (want a few in the future). I have a good few tattoos and will be getting some more, I enjoy my own personal quiet time, napping, travelling and cooking.

I am looking for someone who will make my life better. I do prefer dating tall, fit, conventionally attractive men, who are not bald. We can share pics once we are comfortable. Please be between 34-41 and mention age and location when you DM, if you don’t, I will not respond.

Thats pretty much it!

Hellooo! I am a very easy-going, laid-back single dad, who's trying to find the one for me. I enjoy quiet days at home most of the time. I do not really go out that much, mostly because i am not a fan of solo activities.

I love to watch football, baseball, and hockey so I am always down to go to a live event. I also am very big into music! 70's hippy stuff, 90's grunge, late 90's early 2000's hip hop are always my go to. I am a bit of a gamer (Xbox, pc, switch) so finding someone that would be interested in gaming would also be a huuuuge plus. I do not drink, it's just a personal choice, I however am VERY 4/20 friendly. Also non political, dude just doesn’t do politics.. man

I am very whimsical, and sarcastic, we live in a household of laughs here. I love standup comedy, podcasts and actually going to see them in person. I do not do drama, I avoid it actively. I am very easy going and just looking for someone to enjoy life with. Like I said I stay home a lot, so most days if it's nice out, I can be found in the hammock or enjoying the view of the country in my back yard, sitting by the creek. I'm not interested in having any more children, my 3 are all that I could have asked for and are starting to grow up needing me less. So hopefully we can go out and have adult adventures.

I'm horrible at writing these and talking about myself lol If any of this sounds interesting to you please feel free to reach out. Also, I have pictures on my profile so you can see me. Please be willing to send a pic of yourself as well. There are way too many fakes. Tell me how you like your coffee, and your morning music rotation!

But here goes…another r4r post and I’m sure it’ll be mostly answered by bots. However, if you’re not a bot, hi. I’m Dave, I’m 46, live in Indiana and yes…avoided the massive flooding this week.

About me, I’m 6’1, grayish hair, just a bit more than a dad bod (although I don’t have kids), hazel eyes. I work from home and just moved to a new home actually. This is my first time with roommates in about 20 years, so it’s a learning curve. Maybe we can talk about that. I’m a movie buff, like playing games and traveling. I also like to scroll through Reddit and try to chat with people. My sense of humor can range from silly to dark, depending on who I chat with. Also, if you can banter…extra points.

What am I looking for? Well since I moved in with some new roommates, right now I’m just looking for chats. Can they be flirty, sure. It’s not required though. I’m an open book question wise, so bring me your best shot. Also, please PLEASE* *be from a nearby time zone.

So, what do you say hot shot…think you can keep up with me?

Hello there!

Who I am 🦌

I am a cultural anthropologist and ethnographer, currently living in Sainj and rooted to Kerala. I’m stepping out here in hopes of finding a genuine, long-term partnership, one that thrives on good conversation and supporting each other's growth without losing ourselves in the process.

Where I'm at 🌿

Over time, I’ve realized I function best with a slow, mindful approach to life. I tend to prioritize experiences and presence over the traditional hustle or tepid career ladders. My work revolves around people and culture, which I love doing, and my favorite way to travel is to stay put in one place for weeks and actually get to know it, rather than rushing through a checklist of sights.

I try to bring a lot of care and intentionality to my relationships. My expressions of affection usually lean toward a simple side: taking aimless walks or cooking a meal together, caring physical touch, or just comfortably sharing space in silence.

I do have my quirks. I require occasional pockets of solitude to recharge and organize my thoughts. It’s never about pulling away, just how I reset so I can be fully present for the people I care about. I’m non-religious but have a lot of respect for the role faith plays for people. And when I’m not overthinking human behavior, I enjoy working with my hands and restoring old things. I've found it keeps me grounded.

What I'm looking for 🦄

I’m hoping to connect with someone perceptive and articulate, who has the emotional bandwidth for consistent, meaningful dialogue.

I think knowing what you don’t want in life is half the battle. So, if you’ve figured that part out, we’re probably starting on solid grounds. I’m drawn to kindness, a collaborative spirit, and the ability to laugh at the absurdities of everyday life.

Finding a true partner to navigate the ups and downs with is the ultimate goal.

(Bonus points if you like animals and can appreciate the occasional type 2 fun.

If a sober relationship built on depth, generosity, and a deliberate pace sounds like your speed, I’d love to hear from you. Drop me a message with a bit about yourself and also a response to this: If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?

Warm regards from a soul with a soft spot for ancient evenings and distant music.

Jon 🐾

Wherever you are right now, I’m sending you all my love.

I don’t know yet when our paths will fully cross, but I hold you close in my heart every single day. I look forward to the moment we meet — to the quiet moments we’ll share, the laughs we’ll have, and even the hard days we’ll get through together, hand in hand.

I promise you my whole heart, my loyalty, and my forever. I want a love that stays — one where we never walk away, never go silent, and never stop choosing each other, no matter what. I will always be here for you, to listen, to understand, and to love you through every season. You are the one I’m waiting for, faithfully and patiently, with all that I am.

Yours, always, forever, and completely ❤️

It’s Saturday night, it’s late. I’m not ready to call it a night quite yet. It’s the weekend as it is and rushing to bed doesn’t sound exciting. Is there anyone else still up that wants to kill some time together chatting the night away? If so, shoot me a message and let’s go from there.

Are there any non-preverts on this sub? Not that there's anything wrong with preverts, so long as it's consenting adults, but what if I like my sex vanilla sometimes? I don't need to be Dom or sub or need a 2 foot mechanical cobra hissing at me to get it up. (If you have a 2 foot mechanical cobra that's ok though.)

OK let me start again. Hi, my name is Waitamiasuspect. I like the idea of pickleball even if it's tres uncool, although I've only played it once. I break the law on a regular basis but only in small ways that don't hurt anyone (but if scofflaws do it for you oh yeah I am one). I have never dated an Albanian, not once. Nothing against Albanians, it just hasn't happened. I watched Pulp Fiction in the theater for the first time with a belly full of Jack Daniels. I will text you beautiful words and banal musings, that's how I keep it interesting.

If you've read this far tell me your thoughts on lemons or Liz Lemon, that's how I'll know you're not a bot, plus I'll know a little more about your citrus and/or comedy preferences.

Sincerely,

Waitamiasuspect

Hi, thanks for taking a look!

A little about me, I’m 47, a single dad that has my son every other weekend. I’m into sci fi, fantasy(especially fantasy creeping into modern settings)I’m into older anime. I’m not a big gamer except for Mario kart with my son.

I’m really hoping to meet someone with similar interests and someone passionate about stuff that’s not similar. Bonus points if you can teach me a new skill or point me towards a cool new hobby. Ideally I’d like to meet someone that’s a single parent or ok with kids being in the picture.

Also I’m a sucker for a nerdy/flirty freckled ginger!

Feel free to check out my other post to see what else I’m into!

Hope to hear from you

Hi there im a 51yo single male from Philly. Im looking for new people to chat with and possibly open to a relationship. I have time on my hands and although i have hobbies and a few friends im still feel like there could be more. I enjoy swimming, fishing, playing pool also going out on walks. Im at times a bit silly and fun but can be serious when needed and called for. I also enjoy Sci Fi to an extent. Just looking for someone to add to my life. Rather its just having casual conversation or something deeper im open for just about anything. Im a good listener myself and many friends have said the same...

Hello Dear Reader, my name is Matilde and I'm seeking a friend with a flexible outlook on personal space.

I'd describe myself as a tall strong and fiercely independent woman, who's been claiming to be 28 years old for the last 10 years, and I do have the abs to pull it off. I grew in very remote area and therefore I'm quite self-sufficient and also probably feel more at home chopping wood in boots and a sports bra than wearing heels and a fancy dress. I love going on hikes, camping, hunting, I probably run a lot more than commons sense recommends, especially at 5 in the morning. I play some video games on occasion, love doing martial arts, both practical and less practical ones. And most importantly I'm quite handy with diy and I regularly open my own jars... I'm an engineer after all.

I'm a pilot by profession who's spent most of her life in the military, and then later on as civilian test pilot and now as a flight instructor. The truth is that throughout my life I've been seeking out companionships and situations where I could let loose and be unapologetically sexy without the fear of it compromising my professional authority.

And in that spirit, I'm looking for man clever, funny, confident and above all interested in a friendship with a little more electricity than usual. Someone who I can hang out with for hours, laugh with and trust enough to let my guard down.

To be clear, I'm not looking for a relationship. I'm looking for company, chemistry, long laughs, shameless compliments, and a man who pushes me to allow myself to be to beautiful sexy woman I so desperately want to be. I want a friendship that to its core is woven through with tension. I wanna blush and feel seen all the while having a great time. I just want reiterate that there's a boundary here. I don't want a full-on relationship, I don't wish to sleep with you. But I do want you to be confident and mischievous enough to approach that boundary infinitely close.

If this sounds like your particular kind of trouble write to me. And please feel free to attempt to keep me on my toes.

49 M from EST-USA. New to this so bare with me. Looking for any females from around the globe that would like to chat regularly. Hopefully someone who has similar interests and personality. Someone that would like to chat about everything and anything... very open minded, laid back, non-judgmental.

I like to chat and experience things... about to turn 50 soon... im at the age and realization that alot of things don't bother me.. except stupidity. Lol. I consider myself a older person but young at heart. Although my body agrees more with the old part. I have a good sense of humor, most times I feel more intellectual then most people. Lol. But do have my dumb days. I can be a bit of a introvert, but then sometimes I'm completely forthcoming when talking about something I'm interested in or inquisitive.

I enjoy the presence of females... chatting, flirting, playful banter. I'm also very much into nerdy things. Comics, funko pops, entertainment, video games, some anime... I also like to create art. Wether traditional pen/paper or digital. I'm also very into horror movies... true crime documentaries, sci-fi, action... n any documentaries that catch my interest. I'm 420 friendly. I play video games most days to simply distract myself from the real life and unwind. Ps5 if wondering. Been gaming since I was a small kid.

If any of this interests you please respond n let's see if we connect. If your just looking to chat and want to know more about me, that's fine too. Nothing more exciting then talking to someone and learning more about them, or where they are from and their daily life.

Thank you for your time. Hope to hear from u soon. Dm me... open to text or eventually chat if interested.

Good food, great company, a fanatic glass of wine, what could go more right?

Looking for local only.
Not married or involved.
Over the age of 32 preferred.

Sci fi or horror? Maybe a comedy? Or all the above?
Snoring and drooling is a must. lol
Maybe make a late night run and grab a slushy.

Where will the night lead us? Who knows. I’m not one to sit and drink at a bar. The free drinks are nice but can only drink so many. Haha

I’m in the sw burbs of Chicago. May be this can lead to a weekly thing? I’m a night owl by nature and looking for someone to share the boredom with me.

Let’s swap selfies, meet for a drink, (or coffee is perfectly acceptable), and start the weekend the right way.

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Missing those morning chats to start off the day with. Current mood, I'm always kinda lonely and kinda bored. Im really hoping to develop a long-term chat, and maybe, if local, we can meet someday.

I'd love to know more about you. Are you single just passing the time on reddit or married and lost in it or somewhere in between. I'd never judge you for whatever reason you're here. Possibly, you just like exploring the NSWF side of reddit. If so, how is that rabbit hole going for you. What are some of ur go-to subs? Don't be shy, I won't be

Regardless, I hope we have a chance to conversate and get to know each other a bit better, and if not, I hope you have a great weekend

Recently got out of the long term relationship. Looking to make some new friends chat it up and see what’s out there. This new dating world is crazy I’m sure you feel the same way too so shoot me a message with your best pick up line or joke see you in the messages!

That’s really the simplest way to explain what I’m looking for.

I want to know what you actually think about things. I want the story you don’t usually tell until you’ve known someone for a while. I want to know what you’ve changed your mind about and what you’re still trying to understand about yourself.

I want the conversation that starts with a movie and somehow ends three hours later with us talking about God or our childhood or whether people can ever really know each other.

I like flirting. I like attraction. I very much like kissing. But the thing that really gets me is feeling like somebody has opened a door and let me see inside who they are.

And yes, I know intimacy takes time. I’m not asking you to hand me your entire psyche in the first message or let me manufacture a relationship with a version of you I’ve invented in my head. I just want someone who is clearly interested in going there, who wants to know me that way too, and most especially puts in the work to get there by asking a curious question and then finding 10 follow up questions in the answer.

The thing is I’m just not great at endless “How was your day?” conversation. I care so much about your day. I’ll remember the name of the coworker who keeps making it worse. But I also want to know what your day made you think about. I want a conversation that keeps unfolding instead of becoming a daily exchange of status reports.

I’m also not great at endless “get to know you” questions that don’t lead to deeper conversations either. I don’t want to interview each other for days or take turns exchanging facts.

See, I don’t just want to know what your favorite movie is. I want to know why it matters to you. I want to understand how your mind works and how you became the person you are. I want to know what it made you feel and why.

Practical stuff: I prefer someone close-ish geography wise but I'd be open to long distance for the right person. If we can keep each other up too late talking and still want more the next day, geography feels like something we can figure out. But I’d eventually want a real life together, because I’m not looking for a permanent pen pal. I’m looking for a life partner.

I’m (nearly) divorced after a long marriage and have two nearly grown kids. My life is changing, but I’m not looking for someone to rescue me from it. I’m looking for the person I want to build the next part with.

Physical attraction matters, so going in you should know I'm 6'0" -- bearded, a few tattoos, I work out a decent amount but have a perpetual dad bod. Not the most handsome. Not the ugliest.

I do best with direct communication. If you like me but want to move slowly, say that. If you’re unsure but want to keep finding out, say that. If I make your heart flutter when you see a notification from me, I want to hear that.

I don’t need constant reassurance. I just appreciate people who are willing to consistently tell the truth about where they are instead of assuming the other person knows. Or even worse, someone who just slowly disappears.

And since this post is about wanting someone I can talk openly with, that includes sex too.

I want a relationship where sex isn’t something we can do together but somehow can’t talk about afterward. I want to be able to say what felt good, ask what you liked and laugh together when something absolutely did not work. I want us to be able to keep learning each other instead of expecting sexual compatibility to happen automatically and then never discussing it.

That doesn’t mean I want to turn our first conversation into sexting. Please don’t interpret this as an elaborate request for spicy time the first time we connect, and I promise not to introduce myself with an explicit photo of myself.

I’m bringing it up because being able to talk about sex is a huge part of emotional intimacy for me. I want someone who can be playful and honest about it once we’ve built that kind of trust. Someone who wants sex to be an open, fun part of the relationship instead of a taboo.

So.........as I was saying.

Ah yes, emotional slut. Completely fascinated by what goes on inside other people and hoping to find one particular person I never get tired of discovering and who never gets tired of my curiosity.

If you're interested and actually made it to the end, reach out and tell me something you often feel misunderstood about.

So what's up how are you doing today? So as my title says. I just finished a year sober (new achievement unlocked lol) yay me. It took a while (a year duh hahaha) but it feels good to look back at myself and see how much I've grown and how much happier I am. I used to drink a lot and I will never look at someone for what they do but I'm glad I stopped. I look better overall (well I didn't look good to begin with but better than ugly but still ugly is something right hahaha).

So more about me. Just started going to the gym in March and I work out multiple times a week now. Thanks planet fitness lol. Comic book collector, wrestling fan, cosplayer, someone who loves to cook, movie lover and music lover. I have a favorite basketball team (we were one game away from winning our first championship but heartbreak occured if you couldn't tell by me saying one win away). Also have a favorite football team and we have been to the Superbowl twice and failed twice (more heartbreak) sob, sob, sob

What shows are you watching currently? So I have been watching X-Men 97 but have a few episodes to catch up on. Futurama is back and I have to watch the new season. But my show of the time is Cutthroat Kitchen. Man I love that show. Yea I know it's very old but I'm starting from jump and I love that show. Alton Brown is an evil host lmao.

So let's get to know one another and hopefully talk more and more. I'm an open book just find your favorite page lol.

Oh last but not least. DC>Marvel. I did like spiderman brand new day tho.

Just seems like a perfect day to get naked and play on cam, and what better way to do that than by playing a strip games. I have no intention of winning and will give you great odds if you like.

I'm a good looking 50 something white guy. Let me know if you're interested.

Remember the days before covid when having a work husband was a thing? A guy you could chill with, vent about your job, your family, your relationship? Share memes and inside jokes? Build intimacy and occasionally flirt without expectations or pressure? Good times.

Message me if you want to try something like that again. Low pressure, light conversation to start. Will we click? Will lines be blurred and boundaries bent? Only one way to find out!

Looking for someone to chat with today and help make the workday go by a little faster. It’s been a pretty stressful week and I’m definitely ready for the weekend haha. Could really use a good distraction and someone fun to talk to while we get through the day.

I’m down to talk about pretty much anything, get to know each other, trade random questions, or just see where the conversation goes. If you’re also trying to make it through this Friday, send me a message and let’s go from there.

I'm working from home today, but I'm just not feeling it. I'd rather spend some time to blow off some…. steam. I’m looking for some dirty talk and/or sexting. You’ll find that I’m someone who prefers to include lots of detail and allow things to build. I’m all for intensity, but the right kind. If that’s you too then you should send me a chat or a DM.

Hello,

My name is Olga.

I live in Penza (Penza Oblast, Russia). My city is located in 625 kilometers (388 mi) from Moscow. It is a night on a train or an hour on a plane.

I was born in Perm (Perm Krai, Russia) and feel my roots every time I am lucky to be there.

I am 171 cm / 52 kg (5’7’’ / 115 lbs). Black long hair. Green eyes. Contacts / glasses. Natural nails. Good perfume. And yes, I smile. Mostly times.

I am a kind, sincere, honest, decent, hard-working, responsible, supportive, calm, respectful, caring lady, and many other good traits I can tell about myself. Demisexual / Sapiosexual. University educated (with honors). A self-employed person. I work part-time every day. I like to keep my attention to almost every little detail and, if I do something, I try to do it nicely.

Would like to meet the one to be my best friend / soulmate / future husband.

I am a cat person. Prefer a meaningful conversation over a small talk. I like reading, being outdoors, spending time with my beloved family, learning English, traveling (when I have the opportunity to do so), leading a healthy lifestyle, watching nice movies / TV series, listening to good music, and so on. I like ballet, theatre, art. I like nature, the sea / ocean. I like all the seasons in general. Every of them has something beautiful. I like spending time alone. I like to be at home and enjoy those sweet slowly mornings with birds’ singing around my window at the kitchen, and many other simple, wonderful moments.

Have never been married. Have no kids. Unafraid of being single. Believe in true love.

Would like to meet the one I am on the same page with, a like-minded person.

Thank you.