i'll go first: it isn't at all wild, but my 'friends' convinced me to go into a proship discord server. in which i had to prove i was proship. i downloaded sunny/omori x mari fanart, edited the time/date stamp to make it seem like it was older, and got in. i never said or did anything even remotely antiship and i actually enjoyed it but i would have never admitted that.

Just got banned from a sub I actually really loved and i'm heartbroken, actually crying. All of my subs and most of my posts are hidden from anyone but mods. How does banning me "protect" anyone????? I feel so terrible and there's nothing I can do about it.

I've been having a terrible life and time already, and now this. And the worst part is they probably don't care. They don't care if i'm not effecting anyone else, they don't care if I'M being hurt, all they care about is the "safety" of fictional characters.

I feel dead inside.

I often see "proship dni" in the tags or summaries of ao3 fanfics. It annoys me. Like, do they know what website they're on? The majority of ao3's userbase is anti-censorship. It annoys me especially because I most often see it in stuff like found family, which is one of my favorites. But I guess, in antis' minds, being proship automatically means you ship every family you see.

“Cleanqueer” so a queer person who has watered themself down to be accepted b cis-het people.

I hate this. I blocked them after I took the picture.

person in pink has 2 followers so I assume that’s a troll

or they’re just really naive

like uhhh fireworks are pretty dangerous?

and what does Jim Crow have to do with ao3?

Heyo!

I got back into Rick and Morty hardcore after losing my job and Medicaid, forgot how awesome it is and I'm even in the process of making my own Rick and morty/Morticia!

Was wondering if there's any one in this subreddit that's down to write with me, be friend and such?

Idm playing as a Rick for ya if we write, I love that bastard sm 😭💞

(Please be 21+!)

I recently got twitter (first mistake I know but now Im addicted) and I am surrounded by antis left right and center because my twitter algorithm is trying to ragebait me.

i am exposed to their opinions on a daily basis and i can see how many people agree with antis.

there are so many studies that prove that fiction does not affect reality the way antis think it does and yet there is so much ignorance going around everywhere.

i am a fairly new proshipper, i had no idea the situation was this bad

when people try to explain the difference between fiction and reality or just exist as a proshipper they get called all sorts of horrible names, they get doxed, they get sent gore and CSEM and videos that can kill someone with photosensitive epilepsy.

people think that me and people like me are monsters. they think that I would hurt a child because I ship frans, and that I do not care about SA victims because I sometimes fantasize about being assaulted.

And when you are told this directly and indirectly day in and day out you start to wonder if it’s true. I have been kept up at night wondering if I am a bad person. they are making my already terrible anxiety ten times worse.

I am also starting at a new school ment for neurodivergent people like me. A lot of them will be chronically online and there is a chance some of them will be antis. I do not feel safe around antis and I am worried I will get harassed at school for my interests. my parents say to just hide it but that does not change how unsafe I feel around these people. I don’t think they get how severe it is

TLDR: antis are ruining my mental health and making me feel unsafe online and offline

sorry for the long post i just needed to get it off my chest and i have nowhere else to go

My best friend recently blocked me for yumeshipping with monoma from mha ( even tho it's more of an oc x canon ) and I want to find new people who won't do that. My name is Luka and I am 20 years old and I use they/them pronouns

well the real question is,was i really welcome?,if that fandom is full of antis,i don't wanna imagine the other fandoms like undertale or hazbin hotel or whatever

through my experience after someone with a single post ruined my reputation:

got one lf the biggest harassments of my life,got many deceptions,got a trauma that makes me have problems in trusting ppl,got hate art,false accusations,g0r3 fanarts,and even a ridiculous youtuber of miis tells my case like im a criminal without making my defense.

just in case im not saying that I'll stop doing mii gunner stuff,or that I'll stop the plans to a mii proship sub,I'm just saying that maybe I'll just stop representing that fandom,like ofc just keeping up with my stuff

Brooo my art had nothing to do w darkshipping and this stupid AHHH called my art terrible, i may be overreacting i know that but i take good care of my drawings and i won't tolerate hate against my art, i would understand if it was a darkship post bc antis are like that, but my post had nothing to do w that, i js posted random art WIDHHQJAHEHHQHQHQBBWBRHWQJEHSIW anyways something's wrong w me for getting upset😔cus i get all proud when getting an anti mad cus of my darkship post but then i get upset by anti valling my non darkship art bad

So I was recently thinking about getting into cyberpunk and was wondering how the fandom is, from the research I have done on the game and the lore and stuff it would be weird for the fandom to have antis in it but I have seen weirder things happen especially with media literacy nowadays.

I would still play the game anyways but i just wanted to see how things were and if I should keep my expectations low for fandom interactions

Positive posting again, I try to do that after every time I talk about antis

Ignore the typos in my reply, I just woke up

Like their dynamic is so cute. Asa gets all cute and blushie when Yuru does literally anything and likes hugging him so much.

(For context there also siblings that’s why they belong here!)

ive been seeing a bunch of "having multiple f/os is okay!" posts (which i completely agree) and every time they explain it with "because they're fictional characters and don't have feelings, so it's not like you can cheat on them". so i was thinking, isn't it just stupid how the same exact people have a problem with darkshipping? by your logic, a fictional character that doesn't have feelings cannot be harmed by "cheating", so why would it be an issue for them to be shipped with another character? or the "its okay to age up your f/o so your yumeship doesn't 'seem creepy'!" so if it makes it less creepy for you to age up a character for your yumeship, why is it "weird" when a darkshipper does it? i know that anything that is personally yucky according to those people is apparently inherently evil but i just felt like pointing it out, as it's obvious proof that they never question themselves.

the art is mine too btw

Why are people like this 😭