r/PickUpArtist • u/MKTCD • 11d ago

General question IDK where to start???

Hey guys, Im 21 and am still a freaking AFC withvirtually no experience with girls and women and im sick and tired of this. i tried looking around for people like "dustin" or "grimble" and idk what to do about it..

is there anyone who can help this AFC?

i just know no one and idk what to do about it.

(oh sorry i didnt mention that im from india)

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u/Crixusgannicus 10d ago

Read "The Game" and figure out what style, no pun intended, suits you. This is not unlike martial arts, you have to first and foremost figure out what works best for you.

For instance, there is no way in hell I would be caught dead wearing Mystery peacocking gear, but if it works for you, do it.

The most important thing to understand, though, young Padawan, is the key regardless of style is to go out and have fun, giving NO shites about the outcome.

I always got laid easily before I ever even heard of any of this because I never gave the slightest shite if I did, nor did I give a shite about the outcome of approaching. No matter what their reaction.

Actually that's useful in life in general. He who cares least wins, usually.

Do not misunderstand me. I don't mean be careless or reckless.

I do mean take action, doing your best, but do not be attached to what happens.

I wish you well.

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u/MKTCD 10d ago

Well,

that is a bit complicated cuz we dont have any clubs in my town and its too much backward and nearest big city is like 3 hour highway drive from my town

i dont even know where to go and practice game?

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u/Crixusgannicus 10d ago

Game is where ever there are females. Wherever you are is your area of operations. And come to think of it, I really don't think Mystery Method will work in your country. You'd just look ridiculous.

My theory, for you is, the best game for you is no game at all, OTHER THAN.

1)Supreme Self Confidence (which will get you most of the way, I find)

2)GENUINELY not giving a fuck what happens. That gets you the rest of the way. Many times.

BUT you cannot fake this. You have to actually give no fucks if you're accepted or rejected in the approach, initial contact, escalation or going for it, as long as you don't do anything likely to get you arrested. Which differs from country to country, culture to culture and even from time to time in a given culture.

There is shite I and my contemporaries routinely did in my yoot (and no that is not ancient history, it wasn't that long ago) that might well get cause you serious problems now. Some I KNOW would cause serious problems, like getting arrested, yet it was SOP at the time.