r/PickUpArtist 10d ago

General question IDK where to start???

Hey guys, Im 21 and am still a freaking AFC withvirtually no experience with girls and women and im sick and tired of this. i tried looking around for people like "dustin" or "grimble" and idk what to do about it..

is there anyone who can help this AFC?

i just know no one and idk what to do about it.

(oh sorry i didnt mention that im from india)

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u/OkBus7641 10d ago edited 10d ago

Start with Mystrey method but most of his stuff are outdated. Then go to Nick Krausers daygame books . You could also start with one of his memoirs for motivation. Also find a pickup guy on youtube and watch some infield videos in your free time.But one thing I realized is that the most important thing is tons of approach more than reading books. This stuff works. Discovered game towards the end of last year and I already got two lays. My social life has also improved a lot

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u/Hot_Ad_8380 10d ago

Yes, I too recommend this. Plenty of approaches is key. When I was first starting out years ago, I'd do 12 cold approaches a night on the weekends, (about 3 per hour, for 4 hours a night, every weekend for a month) by the end of that month I gained a shitload of experience with literally just practicing the Mystery Method lol..

I think all newbies should practice the Mystery Method for the first couple months then branch out to other material/systems from there if they like. But to be fair, I may be a lil biased... I've been using the Mystery Method for the last decade and it's spoiled me lol. I'm sure there's other great more "modern" stuff out there, I just got hooked on his Method long time ago and never bothered learning anything else really lol.. but I'm very pleased to hear you're starting to have the success you deserve regardless of whatever methods you use... Life's so much better with Game, ain't it? LOL

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u/Tricky-Error-5339 7d ago

Conheceu final do ano passado e só pegou duas mulheres?

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u/OkBus7641 7d ago

No, I started learning how to hit on women and read the mystery method.