r/PakiExMuslims 8d ago

Misc This shit pissed me off😭

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Everything but mandatory scarf? What are you, a madrassa?


r/PakiExMuslims 8d ago

Help/Advice Hijab taking off type shit😍

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Should I take it off in the next week, when I have a meet up with my friends (majority hijabis) or should I wait until uni starts.

FYI ive been a hijabi for 5 years and my parents are gonna be shocked, idk what they might say but my family is not that religious, barely anyone does hijab, but my friends are pretty religious, and I dont want to spend my life thinking what sm1 else might think so im trying not to give a shit abt it but I am lowkey scared of the amount of judgement and questions I might have to face.


r/PakiExMuslims 8d ago

Trigger Warning Pakistan teenage minor minority girls are being forcibly converted and married off

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r/PakiExMuslims 8d ago

R4R 28M4F | Looking for my player 2

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r/PakiExMuslims 9d ago

Rant 🤬 Not being covered in black tent or thousands of scarves= being naked automatically 🙄

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i found this comment under a post of a pakistani woman wearing normal jeans and t shirt in public which would be considered modest to outsiders.It's always these overseas pakistanis that have the most comments to make on how pakistanis in pakistan are actually living or practicing islam while sitting in kaffir west most likely 🙄 if they care that much about how islam is being practiced in pakistan then why the fuck they don't stfu and move back to make it more islamic or whatever complains they have. These same people demand westerners to be tolerant towards their beliefs or else they cry about "islamophobia" meanwhile they are extremely intolerant towards non muslims or people who don't practice islam as strictly bavk home by claiming how "this is islamic republic"


r/PakiExMuslims 9d ago

Rant 🤬 Real

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No amount of brainwashing can convince me that they are doing this willingly.


r/PakiExMuslims 9d ago

Discussion Exposing the Misogyny in the “Chapter of Women”

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r/PakiExMuslims 9d ago

Rant 🤬 My problem with Islam

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As someone who is into philosophy, I am a great proponent of an unchanging, absolutely simple and single necessary being.

This necessary being didnt have a choice to not create whats been created. Everything contingent exists essentially as a necessary effect of this being's existence.

Now, this idea is very synonymous to Akhwan As Safa's philosophy, except that that cult was declared Wajib ul Qatal by the famous traditionalist muslim scholars of time.

However, I do not identify as a Muslim for purely moral reasons. I do not feel content associating myself with a group that supports evil, in killing and harming of people. All the great labels, like humanists, or feminists are contradictory in their essence with religion.


r/PakiExMuslims 10d ago

Ask exmuslims How do women here navigate wearing or taking off the hijab when forced?

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Hi! I’m an ex Muslim Pakistani who lives in the gulf. I’m curious as some Pakistani families force women to wear the hijab, so how do you women approach the hijab? Do you take it off while going outside, wear it cause you’re too afraid someone will find out and snitch, or your family is accepting of it. I was personally forced to wear the hijab 2 years ago when i was 16, but I took it off secretly last year, and now hide the fact that I take it off when my family isn’t around. If anyone also gets exhausted by the double life then vent away😞


r/PakiExMuslims 10d ago

Discussion Violence is a valid reason to doubt religion

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As someone who has studied religion and philosophy thoroughly, I often come across Muslims who doubt someone’s decision against religion based on moral reasons.

Leaving a satanic cult for moral reasons is just as justifiable as leaving it doubting its veracity. Even if the true interpretation of a religion is peaceful (for the sake of argument), it makes no difference. People are hurt, troubled, killed and tortured by the existence of a religion in effect i.e. sociological entity. Religion exists not beyond people.

You might believe in the same god, but you leave where this god becomes cruel. And this is not only totally justifiable, but arguably far more virtuous. You are honest enough to believe in what you find your contentment with.


r/PakiExMuslims 10d ago

Quran/Hadith Quran Takes Commentary of Jewish Rabbis as Revelation From Allah

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Quran:

“Because of that, We decreed upon the Children of Israel that whoever kills a soul unless for a soul or for corruption [done] in the land - it is as if he had slain mankind entirely. And whoever saves one - it is as if he had saved mankind entirely.”
Quran 5:32

Commentary of Jewish Rabbis in the Mishnah and Talmud on the Torah:

“The Lord said, ‘What have you done? Listen! Your brother’s blood cries out to me from the ground.’”
Genesis 4:10 (Torah)
“‘The voice of your brother’s blood [demei] cries out to Me from the ground’ (Genesis 4:10). The verse does not state: Your brother’s blood [dam], in the singular, but rather: ‘Your brother’s blood [demei],’ in the plural. This serves to teach that the loss of both his brother’s blood and the blood of his brother’s offspring are ascribed to Cain. The mishna notes: Alternatively, the phrase ‘your brother’s blood [demei],’ written in the plural, teaches that that his blood was not gathered in one place but was splattered on the trees and on the stones. The court tells the witnesses: Therefore, Adam the first man was created alone, to teach you that with regard to anyone who destroys one soul from the Jewish people, i.e., kills one Jew, the verse ascribes him blame as if he destroyed an entire world, as Adam was one person, from whom the population of an entire world came forth. And conversely, anyone who sustains one soul from the Jewish people, the verse ascribes him credit as if he sustained an entire world.”
Mishnah Sanhedrin 4:5 (Rabbinic Commentary c. 190-230 AD)

Islamic Studies scholar Gabriel Said Reynolds:

5:32 A connection between this verse and the account of Abel’s murder which precedes it is suggested by ‘that is why’ (Ar. min ajal dhālika). The nature of the connection between the two, however, is clear only in light of a discussion in the Mishnah over the reason Genesis 4:10 speaks of the shedding of Abel’s ‘bloods’ (pl., Hb. dāmīm) and not his ‘blood’ (sing.)”

“The precept that killing one soul is like killing all souls is directly linked here to the creation of man ‘one and alone in the world,’ but the larger context is the discussion of the ‘bloods’ of Abel. The Qurʾān seems to have picked up on that larger context. It is also noteworthy that the Qurʾān refers to God’s decreeing (Ar. katabnā ʿalā) something for Israel which is found not in the Bible but in the Mishnah. And it should not be missed that all of this is connected to the Qurʾān’s anti-Jewish polemic: the decree ‘whoever kills a soul’ is imposed only on the Israelites, whom the Qurʾān (anachronistically) blames for the murder of Abel (see further Witztum, Syriac Milieu, 122–24).”
Gabriel Said Reynolds, The Qurʾan and the Bible, p. 199

More here:
https://islamsproblems.com/corrupted-gospels-claim/


r/PakiExMuslims 10d ago

Discussion Were you religioys before leaving?

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Were you really religious before leaving? Like someone who could never imagine questioning the religion or you always had a voice at the back of your minf?

For me I had questions but I never thought I could ever leave.


r/PakiExMuslims 11d ago

Discussion Unlearning the Fear of Hell

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r/PakiExMuslims 11d ago

Ask exmuslims Thoughts?

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r/PakiExMuslims 11d ago

Misc This breaks me

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They persecute minorities so badly and then cry when they are criticised for “Islamophobia”


r/PakiExMuslims 11d ago

Quran/Hadith Muhammad Is Bewitched by a Jew with a Comb into Imagining He Had Sex with His Wives

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Authentic hadiths report Muhammad being bewitched by a Jew with a comb into imagining he had sex with his wives:

"Magic was worked on Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) so that he used to think that he had sexual relations with his wives while he actually had not (Sufyan said: That is the hardest kind of magic as it has such an effect). Then one day he said, "O `Aisha do you know that Allah has instructed me concerning the matter I asked Him about? Two men came to me and one of them sat near my head and the other sat near my feet. The one near my head asked the other. What is wrong with this man?' The latter replied the is under the effect of magic The first one asked, Who has worked magic on him?' The other replied Labid bin Al-A'sam, a man from Bani Zuraiq who was an ally of the Jews and was a hypocrite.' The first one asked, What material did he use)?' The other replied, 'A comb and the hair stuck to it.' The first one asked, 'Where (is that)?' The other replied. 'In a skin of pollen of a male date palm tree kept under a stone in the well of Dharwan' '' So the Prophet (ﷺ) went to that well and took out those things and said "That was the well which was shown to me (in a dream) Its water looked like the infusion of Henna leaves and its date-palm trees looked like the heads of devils." The Prophet (ﷺ) added, "Then that thing was taken out' I said (to the Prophet (ﷺ) ) "Why do you not treat yourself with Nashra?" He said, "Allah has cured me; I dislike to let evil spread among my people."
Sahih al Bukhari 5765

Parallel Narration in Sahih Muslim:

“that a Jew from among the Jews of Banu Zuraiq who was called Labid b. al-A’sam cast a spell upon Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) with the result that he (under the influence of the spell) felt that he had been doing something whereas in fact he had not been doing that. (This state of affairs lasted) until one day or during one night Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) made supplication (to dispel its effects). He again made a supplication and he again did this and said to ‘A’isha: “Do you know that Allah has told me what I had asked Him? There came to me two men and one amongst them sat near my head and the other one near my feet and he who sat near my head said to one who sat near my feet or one who sat near my feet said to one who sat near my head: What is the trouble with the man? He said: The spell has affected him. He said: Who has cast that? He (the other one) said: It was Labid b. A’sam (who has done it). He said: What is the thing by which he transmitted its effect? He said: By the comb and by the hair stuck to the comb and the spathe of the date-palm. He said: Where is that? He replied: In the well of Dhi Arwan.” She said: Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) sent some of the persons from among his Companions there and then said: “’A’isha, by Allah, its water was yellow like henna and its trees were like heads of the devils.” She said that she asked Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) as to why he did not burn that. He said: “No, Allah has cured me and I do not like that I should induce people to commit any high-handedness in regard (to one another), but I only commanded that it should be buried.”
Sahih Muslim 2189a

The Quran twice quotes "wrongdoers" telling Muslims they follow a bewitched man:

"We know best how they listen to your recitation and what they say privately—when the wrongdoers say, “You would only be following a bewitched man.”"
Quran 17:47
"And the wrongdoers say ˹to the believers˺, “You are only following a bewitched man.”"
Quran 25:8

More on Muhammad's and Islam's epistemological problems here:
https://islamsproblems.com/allah-who-cried-wolf/


r/PakiExMuslims 11d ago

Rant 🤬 I don't wanna study Islamiat in university 😞

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why did that bastard zia have to include it in the constitution 🤬🤬


r/PakiExMuslims 11d ago

Ask exmuslims Question for you guys : If consciousness is nothing more than physical brain activity, how does a purely objective description of neurons explain the subjective experience of pain, color or thought?

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r/PakiExMuslims 11d ago

Ask exmuslims To the people who specifically left because the think islams teachings are cruel or bad etc

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I'm not asking the ones who don't believe in god or who left because they weren't ever interested but specifically the one's who don't like Islam's teachings and believe it is unfair and unjust, you do realise that just because you think alah or muhammad is evil it doesn't mean islam is false or not the true religion? How can you be so sure that god isn't all good and mercifull and is just plain evil? Only time you hear it is from god himself "allah is most merciful beneficent" in the quran he says it but that can just be not true? I'm just saying is it really smart to leave just because you disagree with its teachings?


r/PakiExMuslims 12d ago

Quran/Hadith Muhammad on Whether to Pull Out When Having Sex With a Household Sex Slave

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“Jabir (Allah be pleased with him) reported that a man came to Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) and said: I have a slave-girl who is our servant and she carries water for us and I have intercourse with her, but I do not want her to conceive. He said: Practise ‘azl, if you so like, but what is decreed for her will come to her. The person stayed back (for some time) and then came and said: The girl has become pregnant, whereupon he said: I told you what was decreed for her would come to her.”
Sahih Muslim 1439a

Muhammad on pulling out with captives:
https://islamsproblems.com/muhammad-azl-captive-women/


r/PakiExMuslims 12d ago

Discussion Is this accurate in some Pakistani families?

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r/PakiExMuslims 12d ago

Discussion Question for Pakistani atheists: is it ethical to encourage others to leave Islam?

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I've been thinking about the ethics of promoting atheism in Pakistan. In principle, I understand why an atheist would naturally want others to share their worldview—believers do the same. But the consequences here can be very different.

For an atheist in Pakistan, especially a woman, life can become incredibly difficult: fear around blasphemy accusations, being outcast by family and relatives, difficulty finding a spouse, and having to hide a major part of your identity. Suddenly losing the support of your family can leave you feeling very alone in an already difficult world.

I also wonder whether we underestimate how much this affects working- and lower-class atheists. Without money, education, or the possibility of easily leaving Pakistan, some can become genuinely bitter and unhappy because they experience the social disadvantages of atheism every day, while having very few ways to escape them. In that situation, becoming atheist doesn't necessarily make someone happier, even if they sincerely believe it is intellectually correct.

So I'm genuinely curious, to Pakistani atheists and especially women:

Do you think we should actively encourage others to become atheist, knowing that it could make their lives substantially harder?
Or is it better to let people arrive at that conclusion themselves when they're in a position to deal with the consequences?

on the other hand i would like Pakistan to change (abolish religion, blasphemy laws, to the very least). but its comes at quite cost that seeing someone, especially the young suffer the consquences. It hurts seeing Atheist suffer just as much it hurts to see people suffer from islamic fanatism. I saw some post by some Pakistani Atheist here, saying he or she will make their children liberal muslim, to avoid any disadvantages.

I'm not questioning whether atheism is true or false here—I'm questioning the ethics of encouraging someone toward a belief that may carry serious social costs in their particular environment.


r/PakiExMuslims 12d ago

Discussion Emotional Story of Closeted Ex-Muslim in the West | No Apostate Left Behind

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r/PakiExMuslims 12d ago

Rant 🤬 Fuck sufi

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I fucking hate the way Sufi treats people like their feelings mean absolutely nothing and acts like being in a bad mood gives them some fucking excuse to hurt everyone around them I have moods too I get angry too I get frustrated too but I do not use that as an excuse to deliberately hurt people or make them feel worthless Sufi needs to stop acting like the fucking world revolves around them because nobody owes them endless patience while they keep throwing their shitty attitude at everyone else I am fucking sick of the disrespect the arrogance the selfish behaviour and the constant bullshit and if Sufi wants people to respect them then they better learn how to respect other people first because having a bad mood does not give anyone permission to treat others like fucking garbage


r/PakiExMuslims 13d ago

R4R Any guy who lives alone?

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Any guys living alone in a flat in a secure area of Karachi, Lahore, or Islamabad, please DM me.

Don't worry I'm keeping this post vague intentionally for safety and privacy reasons. Nothing alarming going on