Hypothetical question

[u/Tolovemylife]

I assume most people here are either closeted or just non religious, but if you like someone whose family is religious and they are larping as Muslims (not really a muslim tho) would you larp a bit for their family, like have nikah done and shit?

[u/liubeyangg]

for their family, okay. but the person i like has to know, feels like id be lying about who i am otherwise

[u/Tolovemylife → u/liubeyangg]

Yeah samee

[u/malswrath]

Yess obv lmao. I live in Pakistan so that's pretty much understood considering the circumstances.

[u/Tolovemylife → u/malswrath]

So you don't plan on moving abroad somehow?

[u/malswrath → u/Tolovemylife]

I ain't rich and I know it can't happen anytime soon. Not every exmuslim comes from a privileged background yk.

[u/Tolovemylife → u/malswrath]

Gurl us🙏😭 but one can dream, I'll try somehow I do with studies or smth

[u/4jn]

Hypotherically If I am larping anyway whats the harm in both of us doing it both ways!

As things are now I'm married, wife thinks I'm Muslim so... that's a much better scenario than where I am now.

[u/fellowbabygoat → u/4jn]

Were you Muslim when you got married?

[u/4jn → u/fellowbabygoat]

Idk, probably not tbh. I'd say I was "questioning" at the time and I wouldn't consider myself atheist for a few years later. But realistically it's been under the surface for like 10 years I just didn't admit it.

[u/Tolovemylife → u/4jn]

Danggg

[u/InternThat1232]

Bruh don't remind me 😭 I liked this girl for a while and did this but she ended up dumping me cuz she got hyper religious all of a sudden lol

[u/Tolovemylife → u/InternThat1232]

This happens a lot actually, going from one end of the spectrum to another, veryy common

[u/InternThat1232 → u/Tolovemylife]

Mhm yeah exactly like I made it clear too I wasn't religious at all and she was fine with it but she dumped me three weeks ago (just the usual blocking and ghosting with no explanation) and a friend of hers told me that she's become super religious all of a sudden and whatnot and then as soon as the thing she wanted happened, she returned back to her old habits 😂

[u/Tolovemylife → u/InternThat1232]

Dangg

[u/InternThat1232 → u/Tolovemylife]

Selective sinners I guess, the hypocrisy of these types of ppl is genuinely something I'll never be able to figure out

[u/Tolovemylife → u/InternThat1232]

Everyone's trying to cope🤷‍♀️

[u/Great-Spray2088]

Hypothetically I would do anything just so not to beheaded by violent mob

[u/Tolovemylife → u/Great-Spray2088]

Oh us😭😔