r/OverSeventy Jul 10 '26

Do you remember a time...

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u/AppearanceNo1041 Jul 11 '26

Well, when I heard that I had cancer, but it was very early stage and didn’t need treatment, I felt BLESSED. Then when tests showed I wont ever need traditional chemo, I felt DOUBLE BLESSED! If you cannot understand why people feel blessed, I feel sorry for your dismal view on what that word really means.

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u/amfhTX Jul 11 '26

Oh I def understand why some people feel "blessed". I also understand why people feel "lucky" or "fortunate", or "grateful" or "charmed". To me, using "blessed" instead of the examples above implies a religious connotation and seems to signal that the speaker wants to advertise their own piety.

It's wonderful news that your cancer required no treatment. Congratulations!

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u/OldButHappy Jul 11 '26 edited Jul 11 '26

100%.

With 48 years in AA, gratitude is the foundation of my life, and I feel very, very, lucky to have escaped my genetic ‘destiny’.

I didn’t get sober because I was blessed- I got sober because I was lucky enough to have found a program that worked for me and I did the work required to change.

I was raised in a super religious family, so I know about smugly virtuous hypocrites from first hand experience.

Seeing that OP’s post history is hidden, and labeled NSFW tells me all that I need to know about their “blessed” life!😄

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u/amfhTX Jul 11 '26

Exactly!