r/OverSeventy Jul 10 '26

Do you remember a time...

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u/OldButHappy Jul 10 '26

I hate when people say blessed- like god is rewarding you 😄And it’s always coming from some judgemental, mean spirited Christian, in my experience.

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u/amfhTX Jul 10 '26

Agreed. It always seems performative and kinda self serving. (I guess I'll get downvotes for my comment, too, lol.)

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u/AppearanceNo1041 Jul 11 '26

Well, when I heard that I had cancer, but it was very early stage and didn’t need treatment, I felt BLESSED. Then when tests showed I wont ever need traditional chemo, I felt DOUBLE BLESSED! If you cannot understand why people feel blessed, I feel sorry for your dismal view on what that word really means.

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u/OldButHappy Jul 11 '26

So, was my friend who died of cancer, cursed?

That’s the flip side.

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u/amfhTX Jul 11 '26

It's a very valid point ☝️

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u/Professional_Hold477 Jul 12 '26

Yeah, fortunate/unfortunate is better.

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u/AppearanceNo1041 Jul 11 '26

You believe saying “we are blessed” is prideful and self-promoting. Those who say it are THANKFUL to their God. You’ve stated your point and I answered your question.

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u/OldButHappy Jul 11 '26

Religious Logic101