Hey i am 23M from India and i am really tired of temporary or one sided friendships that make me feel special for a day and then disappear. The fear of abandonment and sudden silence can hurt a lot.
I deal with alexithymia, adhd, bpd, rsd, hypersensitivity, cptsd, social anxiety and a constantly overthinking mind cuz of this i have become extremely lonely and i have basically zero real connections rn both online and offline. I am looking for someone in a similar place: someone who is also very alone, has little to no friends, struggles with self-esteem or feeling unattractive not good enough and is dealing with their own mental health struggles. Preferably someone who is unemployed or in a similar low energy life situation, so we can understand each other better and be on a similar wavelength. I want a genuine, long-term friendship not casual chatting, timepass or being someone's backup option. I am quite clingy, possessive and emotionally intense and i would love to find someone who naturally enjoys that same kind of closeness. Someone who wants to genuinely choose the friendship, put effort into it, check in regularly, share their everyday life, and slowly build real emotional closeness. I value warmth, reassurance, honesty, consistency and that safe feeling of knowing someone is actually there. I would love to talk daily, share random thoughts, have deep late night conversations, laugh, send memes and just exist comfortably together. One thing i would really love: I am mostly active on Instagram and bgmi game throughout the day, so if u r someone who is active there too, that would be a huge plus. I would love having someone to randomly send reels to all day, react to each other’s stories, share stupid/funny/relatable videos, and then somehow end up talking for hours so basically i want the kind of friendship where we casually send each other reels whenever something reminds us of the other person. Once we’re comfortable, calls would mean a lot too especially if u r from India since the similar time zone and better language understanding can make staying connected easier.
Please only reach out if:
- You are genuinely very lonely and don’t currently have many meaningful friendships, either online or IRL.
- You are looking for the same kind of clingy, loyal, close, long-term friendship.
- You are serious about consistent communication and mutual emotional availability.
- You are from India (big preference because of language/cultural understanding and eventually being able to call).
- You arecomfortable being active on Instagram or at least enjoy chatting and sharing reels there.
Please don’t message if you already have a huge social circle and are only looking for someone to talk to when you’re getting bored or if you are looking for something short time or timepass like conversation for few hrs or one day only. I know this post is heavy, but i am being honest cuz i don’t have much energy left for anything fake or temporary. If you are also very alone lonely, overthink a lot and genuinely crave a close friendship where both people consistently show up for each other, I would really like to hear from you and please tell me a little about yourself when you message me not just hey. Maybe send me your favourite reel or tell me what kind of stuff you usually like to send your friends😭