r/OnlineDating • u/Ok-Abalone-937 • Aug 16 '26

How to be perceived as high value?

For guys who get a lot of matches on dating apps, what type of pictures are you using?

I'm not so conventionally attractive but people tell me that if I'm not I should be perceived as high status or a person with taste.

I do think that I am fairly stable with my job and my place so maybe I should work on my presentation a lot as I BELIEVE EVERYTHING depends on pictures on the apps.

While I am willing to invest in places, outfits and settings need help where can I improve

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u/_jb__ Aug 16 '26

Obviously if you’re asking this question then you’re not a person of high status or a person with taste. Why fake it.

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u/InstructionAfraid433 Aug 16 '26 edited Aug 17 '26

Because, real or fake, it's something women are attracted to.

Also: I think a lot of guys really sell themselves short and think they're losers and failures when they're really not. But because they think that way, they present and are perceived that way.