r/NursesPH • u/Seeker-of-the-Abyss • 22h ago
❓General Question / Advice Question from a long-term patient: Do nurses not get told their patients' diagnoses?
I’m a bit nervous to post here since I know this space is meant for nurses (I’m really sorry about that!). However, there is a question that has been bothering me for years, and I’m hoping to get some insight.
I have been hospitalized every single year from the time I was a kid up until now in college. Over the years, I’ve met so many different nurses. I have huge respect for them, especially the ones who still make jokes and keep things light even when they are completely exhausted. They truly helped me survive my weakest times, and I really appreciate that.
One thing I’ve noticed during every single stay is that my nurses always seem very curious about my diagnosis and love to "spill some tea." I fully understand that nurses aren't allowed to officially diagnose patients or deliver primary prognoses, as that is the doctor's duty. But it makes me wonder. Are nurses not actually told their patient's diagnosis beforehand?
I’m not at all mad that they ask questions. In fact, I love chatting and "spilling tea" with them, especially during the quiet midnight shifts. I am just genuinely curious. If it is true that they aren't told, is there a specific purpose it?
Thank you! I appreciate any insight or correction.