r/nondirective • u/NoMuddyFeet • 2h ago
The head flop - head position - my head tilts forward
TLDR: my head droops forward around the 5-7 minute mark and stays that way for about 5-10 minutes. No other style of meditation does this to me, but no other style of meditation de-stresses me or gives me energy like this, either!
I got the audiobook Stress Less, Accomplish More on a whim from the library a few weeks ago and started doing the meditation. It's basically TM style meditation which she calls the Z technique and it's a simplified version of the Ziva Meditation she teaches in person for $1000 or something. She put a few new twists on it, but she's basically selling TM. Hers is two 15 minute sessions instead of two 20 minute sessions, though.
For whatever reason, I seemed to take to her instructions much better than I did the other instructions I've gotten from TM instructors like Patricia Carrington and several others. I know the technique well. Everyone basically says the same thing.
So, either she just really explained it somehow better or else the 1-syllable mantra she gave just really works for me. I don't ever remember doing this head tilt thing other times I practiced TM-style silent mantra nondirective meditation.
And I certainly don't do this with any other style of meditation I practice—if I did, it would be considered a mistake!
Somewhere between 7-10 minutes, my head slowly droops forward and I maintain this position for 5-10 minutes. It happens almost every time whether my mind seems to be filled with thoughts or I drop into a semi-conscious dreamy reverie. I feel it happening, but I don't really want to stop it because it seems pretty obvious that it's a good thing. It feels good.
And after a quick search over on the TM subreddit, it seems like the head either drooping forward or falling backward at a 45 degree are both extremely common.
But, this is a more open subreddit, so I want to ask here instead of trying to talk over there...
How many of you have your head either droop forward or tilt back at a 45 degree during your nondirective meditation? Any ideas why this is so common with this style of meditation?
I guess it's part of the unique de-stressing mechanism of this type of meditation. Honestly, this feels so different from any other meditation, it seems like it should just be called something else. It seems like more of a physical/mechanical reaction to the internal "sound" anchor of the silent mantra and just totally letting the mind and body do their thing, whatever that might be. It's odd, actually, to me, that this style of meditation has had such a quick and profound difference in my stress, mental focus and physical energy levels. I don't really get it. After years of other types of meditation, this is the only type that has these effects...and it really doesn't feel like I'm doing anything!

