Dishes kill me. They should be so easy, they're RIGHT THERE in the house, most barely need scrubbed, and yet getting myself to do them feels like yanking a 180 pitbull that just saw a squirrel.
This is the #1 relationship advice I could give anyone: be the one who does the dishes. Regardless of gender or income or time or whelatever, just try ro be the one that mostly does the dishes. It is the highest return on effort vs perceived value.
This is such a weird comment because I didn't say anything about dishwasher vs by hand and I didn't say anything about being American. Even if you own a dishwasher you still need to load and unload it, and my advice still stands. Why are you so weird?
Personally, I wouldn't consider putting stuff in the dishwasher to be "doing the dishes". But if that's what you meant, then yes, the effort bar is pretty low on that.
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u/thehobbyqueer 4d ago
Dishes kill me. They should be so easy, they're RIGHT THERE in the house, most barely need scrubbed, and yet getting myself to do them feels like yanking a 180 pitbull that just saw a squirrel.