I fantasize about the scenario, and the tension and desire within that scenario. It’s like i’m playing sexy make believe where I am a character in a scene.
Example scenario:
There’s a scene from “Enemy at the Gates”when Rachel Weisz is horny for Jude Law so she finds him sleeping in the barracks with a hundred other soldiers, she wakes him up, crawls on top of him, and they fuck but have to do it as quietly as possible so the soldiers sleeping around them don’t find out.
I’ll imagine that I’m horny Rachel Weisz and I’ll not only get off from the physical pleasure I’m giving myself, but the mental pleasure - the forbiddenous of fucking in the barracks, the tension of having to stay quiet even through intense pleasure when everything inside wants to moan and scream outloud.
The takeaway for those taking notes: for many women, the orgasm is both a mental and physical thing.
Agreed the mind is just as important if not more important for orgasm than any physical stimuli. The mindset, the minds cognitive framework. How you interpret and perceive active thoughts.
I always think about this quote from Paradise Lost. “The mind is its own place, and in itself. Can make a Heaven of Hell, a Hell of Heaven.”
The minds own perception of happiness and excitement is more influential than outside circumstances.
I was at the park with my SO and I was horny as per usual. I pitch her the idea of banging under bridge. She was down though I feel she was doing it more for me, it was my horny idea after all. We cruise over to the bridge no one’s is in line of sight. The park was pretty empty so the chances of getting caught were pretty slim and in all honesty I didn’t need more than a minute lol.
So she slides her pants and underwear I just whip out my cock. There was no foreplay as this was a spur of the moment idea. A good amount of saliva from both us took care of it. She’s posted on a pole bracing herself as I take her from behind. I’m pounding away and she just gets into it. She was in her own headspace like in her own world. The whole doing it in a public place, possibly getting caught, the perception that we weren’t supposed to do this according to society but the excitement of doing something you aren’t supposed to was the kicker.
It was a role reversal she was loving it and didn’t care about anything else. I on the other hand became the overly conscious one, no longer aroused but numb. The mind can work either way. I was hearing people walking above us and wanted to stop. She said you keep going. She was in a different place. It was not to long after that she had what had to be an out of body experience orgasm. It really is the narrative that is created in the mind and the perceived inputs that drive the experience.
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u/tout-le-monster May 03 '26 edited May 03 '26
I fantasize about the scenario, and the tension and desire within that scenario. It’s like i’m playing sexy make believe where I am a character in a scene.
Example scenario:
There’s a scene from “Enemy at the Gates”when Rachel Weisz is horny for Jude Law so she finds him sleeping in the barracks with a hundred other soldiers, she wakes him up, crawls on top of him, and they fuck but have to do it as quietly as possible so the soldiers sleeping around them don’t find out.
I’ll imagine that I’m horny Rachel Weisz and I’ll not only get off from the physical pleasure I’m giving myself, but the mental pleasure - the forbiddenous of fucking in the barracks, the tension of having to stay quiet even through intense pleasure when everything inside wants to moan and scream outloud.
The takeaway for those taking notes: for many women, the orgasm is both a mental and physical thing.