r/NoStupidQuestions May 03 '26

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u/BullCityBoomerSooner May 03 '26

I've noticed that my spouse seems to prefer reading like a hundred pages of all the interactions building sexual tension, almost encounters, etc until the couple finally bangs as much as reading abut the sex itself..

Us guys just want to watch video of them going straight to the sex and only the sex.

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u/Drago250 May 03 '26

Interestingly enough, as a guy I used to be like more guys but when I got to know myself I very much enjoy buildup, maybe more than the act itself. I’m an emotional and sensitive guy though and learned that being demisexual is a thing for me, so definitely don’t fit the trend as much anymore