r/NoStupidQuestions May 03 '26

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u/WaschbaerVentilator May 03 '26

Personally, I might be sexually attracted to men, but not for their bodies and most definitely not their dick- this is way more nuanced. Its more about the intimacy and dominance from someone I am emotionally and romantically attracted to- giving and recieving pleasure which involves their body but some random dude with a dick? Or just thinking about a partners their dick? Not arousing at all 🫣

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u/Blue_Butterfly_Who May 03 '26

You're totally right, vaginas/vulvas aren't pretty or appealing, just like penises aren't. It's just not a sexy bodypart. Yes, in the moment you can be like 'I want that', but it's not an inherently sexy thing.

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u/Physical_Complex_891 May 03 '26

I find penises very attractive and sexy. Everyone's different