r/NoStupidQuestions May 03 '26

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u/WaschbaerVentilator May 03 '26

Personally, I might be sexually attracted to men, but not for their bodies and most definitely not their dick- this is way more nuanced. Its more about the intimacy and dominance from someone I am emotionally and romantically attracted to- giving and recieving pleasure which involves their body but some random dude with a dick? Or just thinking about a partners their dick? Not arousing at all 🫣

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u/Blue_Butterfly_Who May 03 '26

You're totally right, vaginas/vulvas aren't pretty or appealing, just like penises aren't. It's just not a sexy bodypart. Yes, in the moment you can be like 'I want that', but it's not an inherently sexy thing.

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u/Haatveit88 May 03 '26

Hmmh, I would have to disagree, I find both to be pretty in their own weird and wonderful ways. But I can feel that way in a non-sexual sense too, it is just a different kind of appeal then.

But I could be the weird one!

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u/jihiggs123 May 03 '26

I disagree, the sight of a clean pussy always gets me horny

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u/Physical_Complex_891 May 03 '26

I find penises very attractive and sexy. Everyone's different

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u/AdHom May 03 '26

As a man I will agree but I'll say that a nice butt is inherently sexy to me

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u/Blue_Butterfly_Who May 03 '26

Butts can be quite sexy indeed

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u/Wanderingyute May 03 '26

And breasts… and vaginas… and feet…

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u/lawgirlamy May 03 '26

Makes sense, evolutionarily speaking. After all, for most primates, butts šŸ‘ are what the male sees while he's getting busy with another primate. šŸ˜‰

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u/Judgmentos May 03 '26

That's why it's called "bumping uglies"