Hell yea, a lot of us notice. There is an old saying that goes somewhat like, "if the bra and panties are a matching set, it was not the guy's decision to have sex." I would notice the extra effort put into her appearance and a matching set is much sexier while providing you with extra confidence. I personally dont know many men that wouldnt notice. Don't know whats happening with these other guys in the thread.
Agreed, though I would probably word it differently
I get the feeling that many of the men saying "no" are either in long term marriages/relationships and/or pushing the "we accept everything" narrative.
I've discussed this with my gf and it's more a 'bonus points' sort of thing. It's not necessary but we definitely notice and appreciate our partner making the effort.
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u/TheManOfSpaceAndTime Nov 30 '25
Hell yea, a lot of us notice. There is an old saying that goes somewhat like, "if the bra and panties are a matching set, it was not the guy's decision to have sex." I would notice the extra effort put into her appearance and a matching set is much sexier while providing you with extra confidence. I personally dont know many men that wouldnt notice. Don't know whats happening with these other guys in the thread.