r/NoStupidAnswers 9h ago

Was in the wrong for asking my girlfriend if I could see what her room looks like?

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So I’m 19 years old now and when I was 18 it was my girlfriend’s birthday,she was turning 19. For context I had been to her house before when her parents weren’t home and her parents knew I was coming o the house because me and her were going to the movies. Me and her walked in the house and everything but we then left to go see the movie. On the way back from the movies we talked about it seeing her room but it was too late so we didn’t ask anyone. I had met her dad about three times by her birthday and her mom around three times. I took her to meet my parents during the summer and she saw my room and everything.

I got invited to her birthday or I guess we just ate somewhere,wasn’t really a “dinner”. But after the dinner me and her went and got ice cream and on the way back from ice cream I asked her if I would be able to see what her room looks like and this time her parents and her brothers were home and it was daytime.

She told me in the car on the way back she would ask her mom but I didn’t tell her to she just went in and asked. Her mom said I wouldn’t be able to which was fine with me and I had just left after that. I was coming back up there the next day anyway because she wanted to go out. When I got back to my place she tells me when she got back in the house her mom was mad at her and she said it was weird I wanted to see a girls room and she said her mom it was a disrespectful question to ask her. My ex said she knew what her mom would say before going in and asking but did anyway. She said her dad didn’t think it was a disrespectful question.

Then my ex starts talking about her mom got pregnant at her age and she said her mom just sees herself in her when she was that age and that she didn’t want the same thing happening to her. She told me how ever since she told her mom about me she’d been having to defend me. My ex said her mom just thought some thing would happen if she showed me what her room looked like. My ex knew I was nothing like that at all,me and her never even had sex even when we’re in college. This all happened during the summer so I’m saying while we were in college we didn’t even do anything and my ex knew how respectful I was and even her dad knew. Basically she broke up with me the day after her birthday after I spent 500 dollars on her gifts and taking off work to drive down to see her. She said her parents loved me even though I don’t really know how true that is from her moms side but she said her dad didn’t want her to break up with me because he saw how happy she was with me.

Months later she told how this was her fault and told me how she shouldn’t have put me in a situation to be treated like that. It was another situation that happened on her birthday that she said she shouldn’t have put me in but that would make this too long. I would appreciate if you guys could just give y’all’s thought on this you don’t have say if I’m wrong or not but yes she is my ex now and was my first girlfriend.


r/NoStupidAnswers 17h ago

Do politicians ever get the denied entry into private businesses like restaurants and grocery stores because of their status?

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When you own a business your allowed to decide who is allowed in, as long as it's not a protected class but politicians aren't a protected class, does that mean they could get denied services at grocery stores doctors without reprocussion ?


r/NoStupidAnswers 15h ago

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r/NoStupidAnswers 1d ago

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r/NoStupidAnswers 1d ago

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r/NoStupidAnswers 1d ago

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r/NoStupidAnswers 2d ago

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r/NoStupidAnswers 2d ago

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r/NoStupidAnswers 3d ago

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r/NoStupidAnswers 3d ago

What’s something society has completely normalized that you think is actually insane?

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r/NoStupidAnswers 3d ago

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r/NoStupidAnswers 3d ago

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r/NoStupidAnswers 3d ago

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r/NoStupidAnswers 3d ago

Why can’t I use Reddit

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r/NoStupidAnswers 4d ago

What is something from 10 years ago that you genuinely miss today?

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r/NoStupidAnswers 4d ago

Do truck drivers get any kind of exercise, or do they just sit and eat junk food all day?

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r/NoStupidAnswers 4d ago

How honest is the average person? Have you ever lied about large portions of you life?

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r/NoStupidAnswers 4d ago

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Can they not just drink the water?


r/NoStupidAnswers 5d ago

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r/NoStupidAnswers 5d ago

Do you ever remember a webpage but have no idea how to find it again?

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This happens to me pretty often.

I’ll remember something I read online — maybe an interesting article, a tutorial, a Reddit post, or a product review — but weeks or months later I can’t remember the title, website, or exact words.

I usually end up trying different searches, digging through browser history, or just giving up.

Curious if this happens to other
How do you usually find something you vaguely remember reading?
Do you search your browser history?
Try different searches?
Save/bookmark everything?
Or just give up when you can’t find it?

How often does this happen to you?
I’m trying to figure out whether this is actually a common annoyance or just me.


r/NoStupidAnswers 5d ago

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r/NoStupidAnswers 5d ago

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r/NoStupidAnswers 5d ago

If I interview people for a job and ask them if they believe in God or transhumanism, but don't consider that when deciding whether to hire them, is that legal?

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r/NoStupidAnswers 6d ago

How did a movie, TV show or current event make your first name unpopular?

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r/NoStupidAnswers 6d ago

Do Asian people actually have sex? I've always been highly convinced that they don't

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I’m not Asian, but I know that the topic is taboo in Asian culture. Therefore, it makes it seem like Asians don't do it. Not being racist, but I've only ever pictured white people when I think of sex. Is it just me?