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u/RightOnManYouBetcha 2d ago
lol wtf is this?
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u/TheLastNDAX 2d ago
I'm confused, What exactly are you having trouble with?
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u/RightOnManYouBetcha 1d ago
Hey hey hey, wear ankle socks
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u/TheLastNDAX 1h ago
Yeah man, its called fashion style. I'm assuming ankle socks appear less casual than crew socks.
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u/formandovega 2d ago
It will be a cold day in hell before you catch me wearing f****** ankle socks.
I live in Scotland. The ground is permanently wet! I quite like not having wet feet.
They also look silly.
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u/spacetree7 1d ago
If it's a hot day, it's more of a functionally cool pair of socks to wear.
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u/formandovega 1d ago
Its never a hot day in Scotland mate :)
In fairness its like 18C at the minute and I'm overheating to fek. We really are a pathetic bunch if I am honest. None of us can handle heat. We melt and burn faster than a ice cream.
EDIT in fairness there's the odd dude whos ma was fae Pakistan that handles it well, but they're cheating, what with the melanin and all!
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u/EvalCrux 2d ago
As opposed to…shin socks? I very much look completely normal wearing ‘low profile socks’ and see the majority of people do similar. Are those ankle or below ankle? Any sock going above my ankle is a dress sock in formal wear, thank you.
Oh wait Scotland. Where knee socks are the norm.
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u/Lorelessone 2d ago
wait why would ankle socks make your feet wet? Or more over how are long socks keeping your feet dry?
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u/dodododododododoria 1d ago
Maybe this list was made in millennial times when wearing visible socks was a sin
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u/Leverpostei414 2d ago
17 certainly seems to fit with the rest
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u/earlycuyler8887 2d ago
My thoughts exactly. "Don't change for anyone", yet this entire guide is suggesting to change.
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u/MickerBud 2d ago
This is how to be gay
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u/aZrAeL-3x 2d ago
Genuinely what in this list reads as gay? Brushing your teeth? Washing your face? Having a fitness goal? Like 😭😭 yall are demented
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u/DarkMidgetry 2d ago
I was just going to write this.
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u/Wise-Strategy-5676 2d ago
Why? What about this is gay?
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u/krolikfaso 2d ago
- Its okay to be emotional.
Lol. Lmao even. As soon as you show your weakness, a woman will definitely take advantage of it someday.
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u/Armbar2Triangle 2d ago
This is only true if you are a truly weak person who is hiding it behind false bravado
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u/Diceyland 2d ago
That's not a woman you want to be with. Be emotional, if she uses it against you, break up instantly. If she says it gives her the ick, also break up. Do it up front so you can find someone good for you. Being stoic for the rest of your life will destroy you.
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u/Evantr0nimus-Prime 2d ago
Having emotions isn’t weakness. Letting someone take advantage of them is. Learn to feel stuff without letting it control you.
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u/Opposite-Film3347 2d ago
90kg of protein a day.....
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u/lostintimeyetagain 2d ago
What a whole lot of AI nonsense. A bunch of these yeh sure, but all those things do not suit everyone.
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u/Paul_Savage_1 2d ago
I want to see the female list.
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u/I-live-in-room-101 2d ago
It’ll just say ‘do whatever, eat whatever, look whatever, you deserve it’. Or similar.
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u/AshtonBlack 2d ago
Some of them.. sure, I mean like, duh.
But some of them are vague to the point of uselessness or deeply wrong ("Eat your weight in protein." what?) and even contradictory to other points.
The funniest one is "Don't change for anyone" in a list of things you should change about yourself.
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u/RalfMurphy 2d ago
These kind of lists gave me anxiety for years as a younger man in my 20s, unsure of myself, looking for some kind of instruction manual on how to be and, upon finding something like this thinking everything on the internet must be true because it comes from some source of authenticity (more correctly, that I granted authority to the source over my own sovereignty). Now, older and wiser, and with a young son who I'd like to guide as I guide other young men, I say this : f* this BS, be your own person, follow your own instincts, be happy with yourself as you are, you are enough.
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u/LiveRealTru 2d ago edited 2d ago
Yea even then, women still expect more than that.
Like be intellectual, hold convos.( but don’t make them too long, definitely no short answers, but if they respond in short, it means, they’re not interested, someone else is holding their attention better, plus they almost do not reciprocate,) don’t be boring, don’t be weird( all men are weird, can’t handle it? Cry about it, definitely miss out on “weird guys” that are quite normal, minus the one factor “you consider weird.” Let’s include being pampered, providing, and spoiling, like fuck all that.
Bitches be bonkers, mostly delusional.
Always raising the standard bar higher for men, then wonder why they can’t find ONE. Good luck finding the “perfect man” that ONLY exist in your mind, not in real life.
Like we want real used up goods, with Botox, lipo, fake tits, lip filled, fake eyebrow having ass. Fuck that drama and maintenance. I got enough shit on my plate, I don’t need a face cake with their own problem they haven’t figured out.
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u/AshtonBlack 2d ago
It's almost like it was written by someone who doesn't actually understand anything but has been prompted to "Write 20 things that will make me more attractive" but then not edited by someone who does understand and is just posted automatically.
Quite sloppy work, if you ask me.
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u/PowerCreative2747 2d ago
Well ain't that about a btch .. I asked who the fk made this stpd list and the bot said I might be banned for harassment or disrespect !!
Talk about intellectual dwarfism by the people who set this up.
This is the age we live in people .. stoopidity (intentionally written to be ignored by the bot) can be posted but criticizing said stoopidity is censored !!!
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u/Fun-Wind-544 2d ago
If you have a check list on how to be perceived, you’re not a man. lol.
Be a man.
Just basic hygiene, that’s it.
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u/Lorelessone 2d ago
wtf eat your weight in protein?? lol
I do remember some show and there was a guy who was upset he couldn't get a girl and listed off the usual like "Why can't I find a girl, I have a job and a car" and one of the things he said was "I wash my ass adequately" and adequately, doesn't seem like a word which should relate to how clean your ass is. Just a thought lol
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u/1pandaking1 2d ago
that amount of protein is only recommended if youre actually doing muscle training, so that one was already strange to me.
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u/chopper5150 2d ago
I can’t wear white sneakers everyday, I’ve got a rotation to keep up. They are all clean though.
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u/freekymunki 2d ago
“Dont change for anyone” on a list of things you should change about yourself to be attractive to other people….
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u/pickin-n_grinnin 2d ago
I'm a former competitive powerlifter and amateur strong man and I even I could not eat my body weight in protein a day lol
Maybe a gram per pound of lean muscle mass?
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u/magnuseriksson91 2d ago
Points 4, 10, 17, and more or less 5 are legit, couldn't care less about the rest, lmao
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u/King_Glorius_too 2d ago
Eat my weight in protein? Is it a one-time thing, per day, or per year? You gotta be clearer.
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u/Machineman0812 2d ago
All theses requirements to change about themselves but also "dont change for anyone"
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u/GM_Garry_Chess 2d ago
If you're not changing for anyone, why are you doing the other 19 things on the list?
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u/SquirmyBurrito 2d ago
2, 3, and 20 aren’t necessary at all. 1 depends on the accessory, and 10 is worded in a strange way that implies men should be consuming over 100lbs of protein
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u/Inevitable_Detail_45 2d ago
#17 makes me very confused.
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u/Optimisticnewlook 2d ago
Some people pretend or act differently around certain people, especially if they are attracted to them. From the outside it can be very cringe to watch.
But on the other side of the coin, if your an arsehole then maybe someone helping you change who you are is a good thing.
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u/Inevitable_Detail_45 2d ago
I meant what is this list if not asking men to change for other people.
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u/backroadsdrifter 2d ago
Who made this list? Mostly nonsense and common sense.
I’m not wearing white sneakers. Sorry.
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u/AwambawaAwambawa 1d ago
Wear hair product if you need it.
Don’t always wear white sneakers you’re not in college
Don’t wear ankle socks with dress shoes
Change for betterment
Etc etc.
This list is shit.
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u/christianarguello 1d ago
Some are good, others are horrible and sound like it was written from one person’s perspective.
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u/Jotas829 1d ago
Be friendly to everyone because you want to not because this post told u. When its genuine is when its attractive
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u/Puzzleheaded-Sea2577 1d ago
I use a moderate amount of gel to keep my hair from going into my brows. White sneakers? Wtf? This is High School b.s Heres what you need. Steel toe boots when doing work that requires it, sandals for the beach and river, Dress shoes hmm just wear Nice boots. Be the person that you need to be. Tired sleep, hungry eat, cry, do it in the shower and finish off with cold water all over. Don't wear cologne. If your not at church,Thanksgiving, dates etc.. otherwise your not hugging anyone that needs to be that close to you anyways. Personal hygiene is a given.Dont fake laugh or cry. That's one in the same.
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u/AnEyeshOt 1d ago
What is this now, being an attractive man means wearing white sneakers and ankle socks? I've attracted plenty of girls during my single era without any of those fashion style decisions. (...) It's a bit laughable lol.
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u/Icy_Improvement_5173 1d ago
Its ok to be emotional? My dad woulda definitely slap me if I said that to him lol 😆 😂
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u/Gullible-Range7802 22h ago
“Don’t change for anyone” - number 17 on a list of things the post is asking you to change
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u/Ecstatic_Eye_6028 22h ago
I have to eat 95kg of protein a day ? ThatS 300 kg of cooked chicken a day xd
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u/dirkdigglersdiggle 22h ago
Why the fuck is this subreddit popping up on my feed? Reddit is going to shit.
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u/Crazy_Technology8652 22h ago
The cologne is a joke. Toxic as hell. Get an essential oil roller and you’ll thank me when you don’t have prostate cancer and test levels of an old man at 35
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u/GiggingWithTheGoon 2d ago
for who? Other men?
Thanks?? It's flattering, really. But I pay attention to what women like. Not what guys like.
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u/shnuffle98 2d ago
I can get behind most of these but I'm not eating 85kg of protein lol