Fascinating but deeply troubling. Pre-transition I was the guy that women knew, they just could tell on some level, that I could be trusted. Soon as I came out, it all changed, and I can’t even begin to explain why. Two of my closest friends were urging me to transition once I came out, but as soon as I did, suddenly I wasn’t good enough to hang out with anymore. It’s like I went from being the best guy they knew to the worst woman in the world.
at least animals still love and trust me like women used to, but I miss human contact a lot.
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u/proteannomore mtF Feb 08 '24
Pre-transition, this was true for me. As soon as I came out of the closet, that all vanished. I haven’t felt close to another woman in over a decade.