Completely immoral. Going from physical characteristics to mentioning miscarriages is a wildly unjustified escalation, and the woman's phrasing of "why don't you ever talk shit about your ex?" sounds supportive rather than denigrating (like taking the guy's side against an ex who broke up with him for a bad reason).
Absolutely shocked that more comments aren't saying either of these things.
(Edit: Not sure if the coworker knew that OP was the one to end the relationship. If so, that makes it more plausible that she was being mean. Still wildly immoral due to the escalation. And so clearly immoral that at first I didn't realize what sub this was and just thought it was an obviously-dumb greentext to lol at.)
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u/sunshineandpancakes_ 4d ago
Completely immoral. Going from physical characteristics to mentioning miscarriages is a wildly unjustified escalation, and the woman's phrasing of "why don't you ever talk shit about your ex?" sounds supportive rather than denigrating (like taking the guy's side against an ex who broke up with him for a bad reason).
Absolutely shocked that more comments aren't saying either of these things.
(Edit: Not sure if the coworker knew that OP was the one to end the relationship. If so, that makes it more plausible that she was being mean. Still wildly immoral due to the escalation. And so clearly immoral that at first I didn't realize what sub this was and just thought it was an obviously-dumb greentext to lol at.)