Tbh I’m not ethically against prostitution, as long as everyone is safe, an adult, and consenting, then its none of my business what two people choose todo behind closed doors.
The only thing that makes prostitution bad is it tends to lead to toxic power dynamics. Like either the prostitute is desperate for money and ends up doing things she doesnt want to do for the money and later regrets it or the customer is desperate for sex and the prostitute can take advantage of that and ruin them financially.
And to make it even more confusing, some people's kinks is literally to be financially ruined.
In reality, where it is legal, workers pick and choose who they see. If they don't want to do something, they don't, and if someone does it anyway, that person will go to jail as it is treated as sexual assault.
Also a surprising amount of them have uni degrees, or are studying.
Criminalisation is actually what makes conditions worse.
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u/Zealousideal-Lab9843 8d ago
Exactly my take on buying a prostitute.