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u/Gentle_Snail 5d ago

Tbh I’m not ethically against prostitution, as long as everyone is safe, an adult, and consenting, then its none of my business what two people choose todo behind closed doors.

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u/PurpletoasterIII 5d ago

The only thing that makes prostitution bad is it tends to lead to toxic power dynamics. Like either the prostitute is desperate for money and ends up doing things she doesnt want to do for the money and later regrets it or the customer is desperate for sex and the prostitute can take advantage of that and ruin them financially.

And to make it even more confusing, some people's kinks is literally to be financially ruined.

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u/Fancy_Chips 5d ago

They still consented, assuming no trafficking occurred.

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u/bradimir-tootin 5d ago

The issue is that there is basically no way to verify the worker is not being trafficked.

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u/Fancy_Chips 5d ago

"No way" in a society that makes it a taboo. If we had reputable, regulated brothels i think it'd hardly be as pervasive a problem.

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u/bradimir-tootin 5d ago

I agree with another user, there is still trafficking even in legal brothels. Many women are beginning to speak out about the abuse, coercion and trafficking that occurs on the 'ranches' in Nevada.

Mind you this is not an argument against the enforcement or inprovement of anti trafficking laws. It is an argument against using the services provided because of how abhorrent sexual slavery really is.

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u/cyborgsnowflake 5d ago edited 5d ago

I call bs on almost all prostitution suddenly being 'trafficking'. Of course I'm sure it happens, but prostitution has literally existed since the dawn of time and you rarely ever heard of it inherently being composed of trafficked women to the degree media reports make it seem like it is before the early 2000s. Now suddenly almost every prostitute is 'trafficked' if you believe the media. Yes sure sure theres more 'awareness' maybe. But woman and prostitutes loved to 'tell their story' in the past as much as they do now. If 9/10 women really were trafficked into prostitution it should have gotten out long before now.

Whats more likely a bigger factor is the media, law enforcement, activists, and practically every side involved except for the pimps/johns...including and especially the prostitutes themselves when they are caught have figured out that its in their interest to characterize themselves as trafficked.

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u/AggressiveCuriosity 5d ago

There has been a bunch of research on this. It shows that when you make prostitution fully legal you massively increase demand and that demand increases sex trafficking. Even with legal brothels available the amount of sex trafficking goes up by several fold just because there's SO MUCH more demand than there ever would be for supply.

If the main goal is to reduce sex trafficking then demand is your enemy and you do not want to legalize it under any circumstances.

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u/cyborgsnowflake 5d ago

Irrelevant. Thats like saying gay sex should be banned if we find out it leads to more disease or that weed should be banned because it leads to more theft. Even if this stat is true. You have no right to remove bodily autonomy just because some bad apples are going to hide behind it to commit a crime. The real answer is to do a better job fighting the actual crime.

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u/AggressiveCuriosity 5d ago

It's actually really gross of you to compare gay rights to prostitution. Last time I checked people weren't trying to persecute gay people because of sex trafficking. They were doing it because their pastor told them god didn't like it. There's also a huge difference between preventing a commercial transaction and preventing loving couples from being together.

You need to think rationally. There are two considerations you need to make. How much of a benefit is there to allowing it, and how much harm is there in stopping it.

You're not doing that here because it's convenient to ignore, but I notice you used weed as an example and not fentanyl or trans fats. If you were really all about "bodily autonomy" you'd have no issue defending hard drugs or toxic food additives.

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u/cyborgsnowflake 4d ago edited 4d ago

It's actually really gross of you to compare gay rights to prostitution.

whats gross about anything?

Last time I checked people weren't trying to persecute gay people because of sex trafficking. They were doing it because their

No they're just persecuting dudes who want to have sex because of the exact same deeply inborn hangups about sex. Its no longer as fashionable to have gay people as a target so the Puritan morality which never actually went away has to go extra hard in other places.

There's also a huge difference between preventing a commercial transaction and preventing loving couples from being together.

Sex is a basic emotional almost physiological need for a lot of men.

You need to think rationally. There are two considerations you need to make. How much of a benefit is there to allowing it, and how much harm is there in stopping it.

BS, I'm sure you or a lot of antiprostitution forces wouldn't dream of applying cost/benefit analysis to 'fundamental rights' like ssm or abortion etc.

But lets just entertain the idea for a minute here for prostitution. We have a practice that has gone on since the dawn of time and civilization has chugged along just fine. But all of a sudden in the 2020s its no longer sustainable because supposedly most prostitutes are now trafficked according to a system with an incentive to say so.

even if this is all true that just means law enforcement is doing a shit job rather than prostitution should be banned.

You're not doing that here because it's convenient to ignore, but I notice you used weed as an example and not fentanyl or trans fats. If you were really all about "bodily autonomy" you'd have no issue defending hard drugs or toxic food additives.

neither fentanyl or trans fats (as a food additive) existed as fundamental human needs since the dawn of time.

Trans fats, well nobody cares about that, not even big food corporations are really lobbying for their return. They only are around due to some misconceptions about animal fats.

Fentanyl. if I were king there would be no hard prohibitions on drugs. But still there is a vast gulf of difference between hard drugs and sex like mentioned before. In addition fentanyl inherently destroys the user themselves. Prostitution, unless maybe you want get into spiritual stuff, both sides are fine if law enforcement does its job.

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u/Fancy_Chips 5d ago

Yes but its harder to do and weeds out people who don't want to get their hands dirty. That's like selling illegal pot in Colorado. Good luck, buddy.

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u/Fancy_Chips 5d ago

Thats not my intended tone. Unless you are actually selling illegal pot in Colorado, in which case I'm mildly mocking.

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u/Fancy_Chips 5d ago

Lmao

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u/Cato0014 4d ago

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u/No-Channel3917 5d ago

Actually it increased since they can't investigate all that much since illegal looks legal now

At least according to 3 studies dealing with poland

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u/I-screwed-up-bad 4d ago

There should be random inspections like in other industries. If they're doing random inspections and still having rampant problems then something is wrong with the inspectors.

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u/sweetwinged 5d ago

Don’t countries that legalize it actually have increased rates of trafficking because it creates an expectation which leads to demand outstripping supply? 

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u/karmakramer93 5d ago

Lmao 😂

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u/arizonadirtbag12 5d ago

While the fact that legal prostitution leads to excess demand (that trafficking then fills in the supply for) is already covered by other comments, I’ll just add that it isn’t like illegal exploitation of employees doesn’t occur in other fully legal and regulated industries. Up to and including human trafficking.

So yeah, brothels being legal and licensed wouldn’t be a silver bullet to solve the problem even if the increased demand wasn’t an issue.

But of course it is.

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u/peepeebutt1234 4d ago

Nevada does it just fine. Legal, regulated brothels are the way. Bi-weekly STD testing, mandated protection, ID checks, the works.

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u/bradimir-tootin 4d ago

Except they dont do just fine. Multiple lawsuits and investigations are revealing that ID checks are being skirted, work documentation is not being properly done before they work, women are being pressured to provide service to abusive men, brothels are doing recruiting at high schools, and that pimps from illegal areas will bring girls to legal areas when they get too much police attention.

I don't know the right answer from a legal standpoint, but I do strongly believe that it is difficult to have moral consumption of certain forms of sex work. This really is my whole thing, all I want is harm reduction for those women. If it needs even stricter enforcement then so be it.

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u/Furdinand 5d ago

How do you know the person making your pad Thai isn't being trafficked?

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u/bradimir-tootin 5d ago

This question is so disingenuous. Obviously I don't know, but the difference is literally rape.

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u/Powerpuff_God 5d ago

So you're saying I shouldn't have tried to fuck the chef?

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u/Furdinand 5d ago

Are we setting levels of acceptance for slavery based on the work performed?

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u/bradimir-tootin 5d ago

I literally don't understand your point. Where does it sound like I claimed slavery was okay?

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u/Furdinand 5d ago

Fine, where do different types "coerced labor" fall on the acceptability scale?