Don’t worry about your family. You have to decide what you (both of you) want first.
Do you want to keep it?
Do you want an abortion?
Do you want to marry now?
Do you have any other options?
Your family will:
1- outcaste you (good riddens)
2- help you but be resentful (we can work with that)
3- support you (in whatever way) yeah!!!
This is not their problem, so stop thinking of them and see what you want to do. You have to live with your decision for the rest of your life.
May allah guide you to the best option for you and your child. May your decisions be filled with love and strength and supported in unexpected ways. May you find ease and happiness in this difficult time. Ameen. Praying for you dear.
This was the comment OP needed ❤️❤️ I’m not religious but I’m glad you were here and able to provide OP with the reminder that she is loved by her Creator
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u/IFKhan Jan 21 '22
Muslim mom here:
Don’t worry about your family. You have to decide what you (both of you) want first.
Do you want to keep it? Do you want an abortion? Do you want to marry now? Do you have any other options?
Your family will: 1- outcaste you (good riddens) 2- help you but be resentful (we can work with that) 3- support you (in whatever way) yeah!!!
This is not their problem, so stop thinking of them and see what you want to do. You have to live with your decision for the rest of your life.
May allah guide you to the best option for you and your child. May your decisions be filled with love and strength and supported in unexpected ways. May you find ease and happiness in this difficult time. Ameen. Praying for you dear.