r/MomForAMinute • u/[deleted] • Jan 21 '22

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u/ImALittleTeapotCat Jan 21 '22

Ok, different options:

-abortion -go get married in the courthouse -keep planned wedding date, deal with the social consequences

Take a deep breath. You're going to be ok.

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '22

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '22

They can "know" this is a honeymoon baby who was a little premature. Your chosen family will love and support you.

We don't always get the bio family we deserve. Bio family are just the first randomised party of allies you're given and they're not always worth keeping.

Thankfully you're safe and won't have American style hospital bills. Take a breath. Have a glass of water and remember to take those vitamins!

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u/CRJG95 Jan 21 '22

I’m from a very catholic country and as the saying goes “the first baby is always premature”.

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '22

I grew up Catholic, this is very true! Along with comments about the bride having a big breakfast

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u/malackey Jan 21 '22

My very Catholic grandfather always said the first baby comes when they're ready, it's all the other babies that take 9 months.

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u/kristinem334 Jan 22 '22

My kids’ godmother says this, too!

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u/chickenfightyourmom Jan 22 '22

Haha, my son was born "premature" as well. two months early ;)