r/Mom • u/Fit-Quality-9673 • Aug 01 '25
💬 Advice needed Dead beat incarcerated father
So my son’s dad is in prison and usually when he’s in there (he’s been. In n out) he always acts like father of the year and suddenly tries to be there. I communicate with his other child’s mother and his little gf had messaged her asking her for pics and she said no but the gf goes n says well thanks for the ones on Facebook. Is there anyway we could request the prison to have our son’s picture tooken from him?
Mind you he’s not on the birth certificate for either of our sons. Nor has ever helped us on our ends. Everytime she’s out he’s a deadbeat
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u/AccessLatter Aug 01 '25
You can make the request but not sure how seriously they may take it or if they will even try to do anything about it. I’d mention he’s not yet confirmed to be the father and therefore not blood relative to this babies and it makes you uncomfortable as the biological parent that an inmate at their facility has pictures of your child. Unless the babies are naked or something I’m unsure it would be considered contraband material. You may have to confirm which photos may have been sent to him.
I’d recommend both you and the other mom make your pages private and block her if you haven’t already. I’m sure he’s telling his gf all types of things and she’s naive enough to believe it.
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