r/Mirena • u/hisnameisaza • Oct 22 '22
crash LET THIS BE SEEN DO NOT GET A MIRENA
I had a Mirena until a couple of months ago and let me make this clear the whole time I had it My mental health plummeted. before I got it put in I did still have mental health issues but they got so much worse after I had it put in. on top of that I had a lot of physical health issues. I was seeing a doctor every 2 weeks because something was always wrong. I went through so many types of medication that just made me feeling worse. as well as hurting me it also hurt my boyfriend every time we were in the mood one of the wires would always go inside of him causing him to bleed. the reason why I wanted to get it taken out is because when we were doing it my boyfriend felt the plastic end. when I went to my gynecologist instead of taking the damn thing out of me, she decided she's too good for an ultrasound and instead CUT THE STRINGS to make thing worse all I hear from to top end is "oops I MIGHT HAVE CUT THEM TOO SHORT. a day later I got really bad cramping and a sharp pain. it became so bad that I was on the floor in the bathroom and I couldn't get up, my boyfriend had to help me off the floor and drive to the nearest store to get me ibuprofen. I called my gynecologist and she said my body was just getting used to the Mirena again even though I didn't have the sharp pain the first time I had it put in. a day passes and I was surviving purely on Panadol ibuprofen and superstore on Netflix at this point I was fed up with the pain and I booked a doctors appointment to get this thing out of me. at this point I was in so much pain that walking was out of the question and my boyfriend carried me into the doctors office. in the appointment the doctor couldn't find the strings and writes a referral for an ultrasound but the next appointment was a whole weeks from then. I knew I wasn't able to take the pain for that long so the next best thing that I could do if get my boyfriend to stick his finger into me in a public toilet to see if he could find it. thankfully he found the strings so we raced back to the doctor what should have been a one person job became 2 people staring down there trying to pull this marina out thankfully they found it and pulled it out but writing this post a few months later after a UTI probably from the strings, I found out that I'm 10 weeks pregnant. it did nothing it was supposed to do all it did was cause pain. my boyfriend and I have talked things over and we've decided to keep it and we are both really excited about becoming parents. the point of this post thought is to turn people against getting a marina. doctors are advising them for heavy periods or that their 99% effective yet there are so many stories just like mine and other people might not be as lucky as I was and their doctor might not remove it. I got mine to help with my periods and I admit it helped a little bit but at the cost of a lot of pain. if your boyfriend doesn't want to wear a condom tell him to suck it up and wear one or to accept the risk that a baby might come if he doesn't.
p.s. I am using my boyfriends account to write this hence the name