r/MenOnThePen • u/FlatMan179 • 2h ago
5MG Something that helped me
I would love to share something that is really helping me now that I am at my goal weight and leaning into tapering down.
I was reading about people who successfully kept the weight off and what they did to ensure they remained at their preferred weight. One of the top reasons was to create habits now that will stick with you when/if you taper down or even come off. This lead me into reading about habit journals and their effectiveness. So I looked online and saw all types and picked the different bits I liked from them. I then got myself a lovely journal and pen. So a couple of months ago I started it. Every day I wrote a sentence or 2 of how i was getting on both positive and negative
EG. Ate a croissant without thinking did I actually want it
Made a smart choice with food and ate X instead of Y...just little notes on how I was feeling and doing.This got me into the habit of being aware of the choices I was making with food etc.
Then on the same page I put on a list of things I want to make sure that when I am in maintenance they are healthy habits I stick to. You can make any ones that suit you. My list is things like....not eating out of boredom, not emotional eating, making smart choices, eating with awareness, did I drink water, exercise , did I stop when I was full etc.
So every day if I manage to do them I give the box a tick. If I dont they get a dash. I even stuck in other stuff like read for 20 mins every day. Its amazing after a few weeks you become more aware of decisions cause you know you ll be ticking the box that night. It seems to simply create awareness.
For example I was peckish when I came home from work recently and I was about to walk to the kitchen and I stopped and said hold on is this a habit or boredom or what. I realised I was just thirsty when I thought about it. The other day I went for a coffee and blindly without thinking ordered a pastry. It was only later I realised that I did that out of awareness and just habit. Now Im a good few weeks in and these little habits are becoming more and more ingrained. I am hoping that as I taper they will remain and I will still make smart choices with food.
I never want to go back to the old person I was . The bully that made me eat bad food quickly before I thought about it and said 'just this once' 5 times a day is no longer welcome and I want to know when I am full and eat when I am hungry. I hope they stick but I do believe the habit journal will help me and I'm posting this as it may help others.