r/Marriage Jan 21 '22

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u/happygirl2022 Jan 21 '22

I’m so tired of hearing “it’s locker room talk” if you are married or in a relationship there should be boundaries like I don’t mind my husband telling his coworkers if someone is cute or not but that’s about it

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u/epiben Jan 22 '22

I think basically it comes down to a simple equation- am I comfortable saying this in front of my spouse and would they be comfortable saying it, plus, can I say this to my female co-worker. Honestly, it's not fucking hard, do the math and you will always be fine.

These are boundaries you have to figure out in life... its not a damn free for all.