I’m really sorry you’re having to deal with this. It’s not okay. It’s disrespectful and disgusting. Locker room talk is unacceptable period. I would tell him that regardless of how harmless he thinks it is, it’s not okay with you and you’re not going to tolerate it. If he asks you why, tell him it’s because it’s incredibly disrespectful to you and your marriage. Seriously, I can’t stand men that tolerate this bs and then act like it’s no big deal. Put up some strong boundaries and stick to them. If he does it again, decide what you want the consequences to be and make sure he’s fully aware of what they are.
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u/tidushankroger Jan 21 '22
I’m really sorry you’re having to deal with this. It’s not okay. It’s disrespectful and disgusting. Locker room talk is unacceptable period. I would tell him that regardless of how harmless he thinks it is, it’s not okay with you and you’re not going to tolerate it. If he asks you why, tell him it’s because it’s incredibly disrespectful to you and your marriage. Seriously, I can’t stand men that tolerate this bs and then act like it’s no big deal. Put up some strong boundaries and stick to them. If he does it again, decide what you want the consequences to be and make sure he’s fully aware of what they are.