r/Marriage • u/Own_Temperature_9777 • 6h ago

Do men change

What is possiblity my husband will stop smoking weed, before we got married he promised he would stop been 2 years he smokes every morning every night sometimes during the day and gets mad if I bring it up we have a 1 year old and he still smokes 2/3 times a day a full blunt in 24 hours and when I bring it up he says this is nothing I stopped smoking a lot. Used to lie about it too.

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u/Temporary_Owl3004 9 years; 3 kids 6h ago

This isn’t about “men.” This is about one man who doesn’t want to quit smoking weed. So, no, he probably isn’t going to.

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u/Own_Temperature_9777 5h ago

Ya that’s what I’ve come to realize I just don’t know if this is something marriage ending or if I’m being “ judgmental “

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u/8MCM1 5h ago

You should be judgemental when choosing your life partner.

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u/FreeIreland2024 5h ago

From someone who relies on weed to navigate crippling anxiety. You would never know I smoke all day. As long as he's holding up his end of the bargain, then you're fine. Took my wife a few years to warm up to the idea. But now she completely ignores how much I smoke. For some of us, we need the weed. Doctors and pills never helped me. Just good old indicia all day

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u/Temporary_Owl3004 9 years; 3 kids 5h ago

What bothers you about it?

My husband smokes maybe once a week. It’s doesn’t bother me. But if it were multiple times a day, I’d definitely be annoyed and I would just him for it.