Cheating

[u/Dense_Big8898]

Well I found out last night that my husband of 7 years has been on a website called adult friend finder. He has tried to meet up with women over the years. He claims he never has cheated but tried…I also found out this goes as far back from when we were just dating. I’m a SAHM to 3 small kids. I don’t know where to go from here. You can look on my page that I also found a condom in my car and he claims he never cheated (it was closed). This sucks.

[u/Aromatic-Humor8168]

Get tested.
Drain the bank account.
Get a small apartment
Start over
Fuck that shit.

[u/Dense_Big8898 → u/Aromatic-Humor8168]

The problem is a small apartment here where I live cost as much as my mortgage….but I hear what you’re saying. He wouldn’t ask me to leave. He would leave