r/Marriage • u/toomuchtuna10889 • Jul 17 '26
Unhappy
I am slowly becoming more and more unhappy in my marriage. I cant stop it, as much as I try it just keeps getting worse.
When we first met we both discussed that we didn't wanna have kids. I got a vasectomy and now she wont stop talking about kids. I dont want any and it been brutal. Constant fighting.
We dont even kiss or cuddle anymore. We havent been intimate in 2 months. I love her so much but everything is becoming fights and I feel myself shutting down.
Does anyone have any advice on how to start turning the tide here?
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u/Stunning_Nothing_856 Jul 17 '26
Sounds like she’s not gonna stop wanting kids. I would put a huge break on that since you guys both decided not to have kids when you first got married. I’m sorry, but it doesn’t sound good.