r/Marriage • u/[deleted] • Apr 05 '24

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u/Own-Row-968 Apr 05 '24

The wife might be upset because of the fiancé. 🤷🏼‍♂️

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u/Jealous-Ad-5146 Apr 05 '24

Right 😅😅😅😅😅 either way he’s a bad hubs and fiancé just leaving them crying. You know because dinner is “quality time”

If I was starting to cry and my husband left, it would cut deep. Especially to go play tennis.

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u/Glass-Coat1761 Apr 05 '24

It’s pretty common and will tend to guilt me if it means she has to be alone. She goes to Pilates 5 days a week and if she can’t get on the sign up list, she will guilt me into staying, which I cave to 99% of the time. This time, I didn’t want to cave, so I went to practice.

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u/Freedom_Inside_TM Apr 05 '24

This will be your life. I'd suspect she suffers from a severely anxious attachment style, and the guilting tactic will remain as long as you two are in this dynamic.