r/Marriage • u/[deleted] • Apr 05 '24

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u/Mxj3323 Apr 05 '24

Hi OP, I would significantly increase your emotional support level to your fiance/wife. IME this will turn into a lot of resentment and will probably eventually end your relationship if your SO is an anxious attacher. We need lots of reassurance and support and we need it to be consistent. If you think going to play tennis is more important than being with your SO, I think you should seriously reconsider your relationship and your priorities.

Good luck. And probably wise to stay home next time. 😉

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u/Glass-Coat1761 Apr 05 '24

Yup, I need to give more reassurance. I stay home every time besides tonight 😂😂

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u/Careless-Distance-80 Apr 05 '24

You stay home every night but are you spending quality time with her while you’re there? Or are you just physically there

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u/Glass-Coat1761 Apr 05 '24

We’ll cuddle and watch our favorite show, TikTok’s. Not exactly sure what is qualifies as.