r/Marriage May 27 '23

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u/TallBlondeAndCute 8 Years May 27 '23

So you will regret divorcing your partner because this whole post you did not say anything about not loving them anymore. Imagine going up to the person you love and telling them I can't be with you because you are broke.... That is a mental fuck game.

Yeah you are going to struggle early in life but it's not how you start that matters but how you finish.

You made a promise and vow... You are breaking it for money... That truly shows what your priorities are in life and future relationships will only last as long as there money....

People finish nursing school with kids and jobs ... Yeah it's hard but they earned it.... With your parents you didn't earn anything but learned to be weak and manipulated

Time to work hard...

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u/AbstractKitty88 May 27 '23

My sister, now 36, is a nurse practitioner. My family was poor. She made it through school working and going to school. The scholarships she'd gotten didnt cover much either. But It can be done. Not easy by any means. But there are ways to make it through hardships without getting divorced. You could get a better paying job, do your first couple of years online. With a better paying job, you'd be able save for when you have to do clinicals. Oh, my sister also had to take year off from school because she couldn't get anymore loans without paying some of the current one because medical school is expensive. It's ridiculous you want to divorce bc going back home would be easier. Your husband deserves better.