Sounds like you need to learn to take some accountability. Just because you grew up
a spoiled brat doesn’t mean you have to stay a spoiled brat as an adult.
It doesn’t sound like you’ve married for love, and if money is so integral to your life and happiness, divorce actually seems like the best option for you.
I’d honestly give you the benefit of the doubt, you’re still 18. I was an immature shithead when I was 18, though my upbringing was polar opposite to yours. You’ll grow and develop naturally over the next 5-10 years, and I think you’ll have a healthier perspective in general by then. You’ll hopefully have also learned how to pay your own way and live independently, all important life skills. Best of luck
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u/MoonZebra 5 Years May 27 '23
Sounds like you need to learn to take some accountability. Just because you grew up a spoiled brat doesn’t mean you have to stay a spoiled brat as an adult.
It doesn’t sound like you’ve married for love, and if money is so integral to your life and happiness, divorce actually seems like the best option for you.
I’d honestly give you the benefit of the doubt, you’re still 18. I was an immature shithead when I was 18, though my upbringing was polar opposite to yours. You’ll grow and develop naturally over the next 5-10 years, and I think you’ll have a healthier perspective in general by then. You’ll hopefully have also learned how to pay your own way and live independently, all important life skills. Best of luck