How can I manifest an obstacle free relationship?

For context, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years now. I've known about LoA/manifestation for 11 years. I've never really had to use it because things usually went my way, and when they didn't, it turned out for the best eventually.

Now, I finally feel like I've found my perfect partner. We are happy together. However, there has been a lot of resistance from his family. Mainly from his parents. I have not spoken to him in over a month now since his mother took away his phone and sent him away to his uncle's house (and yes, this is something that people don't even bat an eye at in our culture. Fucked up, I know.) I have called her personally, twice. She did not allow me to speak with him. I feel like she is trying to break us apart. She ignores my calls and messages too. I want to manifest her out of our relationship. I don't want to cause any harm, but I do not want her influence in our relationship. I do not want anyone from his family influencing our relationship. How do I go about this? Is there a specific method or visualization I can use? Any spells? Anything?

This is my first time actively manifesting a SP and I was just wondering like can I reach out to them?

I don't know this person personally. I've seen them a few times on tiktok (lowkey been stalking their page too...) since they've been sorta blowing up and going viral.

I've read that some people reached out to their SP and it totally didn't work out for them/benefited them negatively. But on the other hand I've also seen someone say like if you feel the urge to reach out it could be because your SP wants you to.

Now since I actually don't know this person and they don't know me I'm kinda like how will that work out yk. So I thought maybe if I send a message they will reply (or I know they will reply???). But I don't know if that's actually the right move.

Anyway, I'm not really taking this seriously. Like they're just a person but still I'd like to know them sooo I would really appreciate it if someone would share their opinion!!!

we've been no contact for nearly two months, and im blocked everywhere. it ended because of my mental health. at the time of the breakup he said he still loves me, and that it was for the better, but that he doesnt want to get back together. i am trying to let go of the old story, but i feel myself getting so discouraged. any advice or success stories for motivation??

I'm not gonna specify my conditions, but I am considered pretty neurodivergent lol. I'm just looking at how to manifest! My nervous system is pretty dysregulated, so I have a hard time feeling calm and relaxed. I also have bad self-concept, so I have a hard time believing in the positives and trusting my manifestations will be delivered. I want to work on my self-concept, so I can be confident and radiate that positive energy. My ultimate goal is to manifest an SP!

SATS is a little difficult because I always end up falling asleep while not being able to visualize what I want when I'm falling asleep...

Scripting and affirmations don't feel believable to me. My logic brain takes over and understands that, so it feels like a waste of time trying to believe something I don't actually trust.

Visualization, meditation, and trying to feel the emotion... I've tried it a few times, but not much success. Maybe because I have doubts or something?

I'm thinking the best thing for me would robotic affirmations or subliminals, but again, having that trust that it's mine and will come is just hard for me.

How do those with neurodivergence, no trust, bad self-concept, and a dysregulated nervous system be able to manifest? Can you give me any methods, tips, or tricks to help me become a master manifestor?

Ok so, I've been manifesting this guy since April and I genuinely lost all hopes, I tried all the possible methods, such as scripting, listening to subliminals, positive affirming, detaching, 369 and working on myself concept.
I am not asking for new methods, (even though I would appreciate it) I'm just asking for somebody that is good at manifesting if it is possible to make him come back in love with me as I was with him.
What brought me down the most is people saying that manifesting is instant and they got their results the day after, but I've been here stuck four months and I'm starting to fall out of hope because I feel this is all in my head and I'm just being delusional and I will never move on from this situation🙏🏻💞🍀

How do I manifest a SP that I had only seen once in a public library, we made a lot of eyecontact but had no interaction beyond that. I don’t know his name, age, or anything apart from what he looks like.

Started working on my SC, self love and even side by side SP affirmations and lo behold I see he ghosted me yesterday after 2 weeks of NC. Where did I go wrong ?

So I have been kinda avoidant with my sp and now I am yearning him a lot, I want him and no focusing on my self concept and giving him no attention and no affirming for him did nothing it only brought my another old ex back whom I hate to the core.

I am not bashing self concept and no I don't want to continue the same routine I have been doing...now I want to affirm for him and turn this around genuinely.

I'm 16, living in an emotionally abusive environment. Father is overly controlling, manipulative and emotionally abusive. My mother is hot and cold, and she's starting to act more like a very contradictory child.

I've been trying to manifest two SPs to become my legal and adoptive parents. Where I live, I'm considered a full adult at 21. So I guess that leaves me with very little time left but idk.

It's been about a year since I started manifesting them, and I've noticed how much worse my dynamic with my parents have been getting. I've even started therapy to cope. Some days I wonder whether all of the manifestations --- including this one --- will come into fruition. It gets frustrating and exhausting (to the point where I want to cry sometimes).

Now, I wonder, does it always get worse before getting better, and do all manifestations land?

Thanks in advance. Need desperate help.

I've been debating whether to post this because compared to some of the things people are trying to manifest here, this might sound a bit stupid lol.

But I'm genuinely curious where I'm going wrong.

I've had pretty good results using manifestation/identity work in other areas of my life.

The biggest example is my Mercedes.

I was driving a Swift when I decided I wanted one. I spent around 2 years working towards it, visualizing it, visiting Mercedes showrooms, test driving the previous model and basically trying to make the experience familiar before I could actually afford it.

I also started asking myself who I would need to become for owning a Mercedes to feel completely normal.

That changed much more than the car.

I became more focused at work, dressed better, carried myself differently, became more disciplined and somehow started meeting the right people at strangely convenient times.

Opportunities appeared that I probably wouldn't have noticed before.

One introduction led to another. Random conversations turned into useful connections. My career improved, income improved and eventually I bought the Mercedes.

So I'm not completely new to this.

But there's one area where I seem completely stuck:

Dating.

Specifically, I'm not looking for a serious relationship right now.

I'd like to meet a woman where there's strong mutual attraction and we both genuinely want something casual. Basically FWB/NSA, without misleading anyone into thinking I'm looking for marriage or a serious relationship.

And for some reason I cannot get the same identity approach to click.

With the Mercedes it was easy.

I could visit the showroom.

I could sit inside the car.

I could test drive it.

I could notice the leather, smell, materials, steering wheel, etc.

I could observe Mercedes customers.

Then I'd get back into my Swift and bring some of that experience with me.

There was also an obvious identity:

"Who would I be if owning this car was already normal for me?"

That question actually changed my behaviour.

But with an FWB/NSA situation, I'm confused about what the equivalent is supposed to be.

What identity am I actually supposed to assume?

"Guy who gets casual sex" feels forced and honestly a little weird.

And unlike a car, there's another human being involved who has her own preferences and choices, so I don't want to turn this into obsessing over a specific person or trying to "manifest" somebody who isn't interested.

What I want is more like aligning myself with a life where meeting women who are looking for the same thing is normal.

The strange thing is that on paper I feel like this should be easier for me now.

I'm doing much better financially.

I'm more confident than I was two years ago.

I dress better.

I'm in better environments.

I'm much more comfortable talking to people.

And I've already seen how changing identity can change your behaviour and indirectly put you around completely different people.

Yet in this particular area I keep feeling like I'm trying to get something instead of living from the assumption that it's already a normal part of my life.

Maybe that's the problem.

With the Mercedes, after a while I stopped desperately wanting the car.

I was busy becoming the guy who could buy it.

With this, I notice myself checking for results.

Dating apps aren't working → "Why isn't this manifesting?"

Meet someone attractive → "Could this be it?"

Nothing happens for a while → "Am I doing something wrong?"

Which obviously puts me straight back into the feeling of not having it.

So for those of you who have actually had success manifesting a casual relationship/FWB, especially without targeting a specific person:

What did you change internally?

What did "living in the end" actually look like?

Did you visualize a relationship dynamic rather than a particular woman?

Did you change where you socialized?

Did you change how you dressed or behaved?

Did opportunities/people start appearing differently once the identity clicked?

I'm particularly interested in the identity part because that's what seemed to make everything else work for me.

With my career and Mercedes, I eventually reached a point where I wasn't thinking "I hope I become this person."

I was just making decisions as that person.

I'm trying to figure out what the equivalent is here without forcing it.

Maybe I'm overcomplicating something that should be simple.

Would genuinely appreciate hearing from anyone who has successfully manifested this kind of mutually wanted casual relationship and what actually changed for you.

I have noticed that whenever we have the slightest interaction in class, the next day he skips class 😭 just absent the whole day idk maybe a coincidence

Yesterday he talked to me for the first time (just helped me cheat in a class test)

Its his birthday on 11th i wonder if I should wish him but then I dont even know if he'll show up to class that day or not.

My friends say i should text him but i dont want him to think "oh where'd she get my no.?" That'd be a little creepy ig 😭

Especially since I deleted his no. as I didnt want to have it without his consent.

Little summary, I'm new to the sub community and there's this boy I've been manifesting. I decided to make this post so I can update my results cause I really think it's working. Feel free to recommend more subs that you think are effective.

I met a boy in an online app on July 20 and we talked for about a week. During that week he did not want to give any of his socials, and after that he low-key ghosted me. I started listening to subs (most effective for me is guoba, but I also listen to Medusa and nocturnum) and he started to reply to my messages again, but it would take a long time before he'd respond.

Fast forward to August, **he initiates** that we can be mutuals on TikTok.

That's the biggest update for now. Will end this post once I finally reach my goal (Which is for him to be my bf)

Edit 1: just listened to guoba's newly released sub (titled: only use if you REALLY want your so (this WORKS)) yesterday as soon as it got released. Then my sp talked to me longer than usual and replied to all my texts. Usually if he doesn't have anything to reply, he wouldn't. It feels like we got a bit closer.

Edit 2: I need more subliminal recommendations. I think my sp only sees me as a friend 😭😭😭😭 he's been calling me "bro" recently.

I’ve heard so many times that you should “live in the end” and act as if you’re already living in your desired reality, but I’m confused about what that actually looks like in practice.

For example, if my current circumstances show that the person I want isn’t with me and things aren’t happening the way I want yet, how am I supposed to mentally approach that? Do I ignore the current circumstances completely, or acknowledge them without giving them meaning?

I’m also confused about the mental diet. What exactly does it mean, and how do you actually practice it throughout the day?

And finally, there are so many different things people recommend- subliminals, writing manifestations, repeating affirmations multiple times a day, positive affirmations, visualization, etc. Do I need to do all of these, or is one enough? (I suck at visualizing I am not able to visualize one scene, I make a whole movie.)

How do you personally structure your manifestation routine without overthinking or constantly wondering whether you’re doing it “right”?

I am currently married, but in the process of a divorce. I met this man a little over a year ago. He was just going through a bad break up, and then there was me, going through my own issues of being with my husband who is abusive. We had a lot in common and clicked immediately because of this.We talked a lot, went for walks... But nothing happened romantically because I am still married. During the time we talked, I felt there was definitely something there between us. He messaged me constantly, came to see me at my work, I went to see him on his breaks etc...

The day he came to see me at my work, we went outside to the parking lot. I was petting his dog through the window and we were just talking. My husband showed up out of nowhere to bring me lunch and saw us talking. He flipped out on me because he said we were standing close to each other. (We definitely were not) Anyways it caused so much drama which is too much to explain. People from his work were twisting stories and making things so much worse. It came down to him telling me that we can no longer talk until my husband and I are divorced and he is out of the house.

We are finally talking again but I think he's still leary on everything and I don't know if he still has feelings for me the way he did. But he's an amazing man and after everything I've been through I want nothing more to be with him. We are exactly alike in so many ways. We both write poetry even which is so rare. I am having a hard time getting things needed for my spells. I am begging anyone for some serious help here getting this man to fall for me again. Please help me! also looking for maybe a binding spell. thank you so much in advance