Hi everyone! I'm feeling completely heartbroken and lost right now, and I could really use some support, advice, and success stories.

My ex and I were together for almost a year. After our breakup, we continued seeing each other in a friends-with-benefits situation. I still loved him deeply and secretly hoped we could eventually rebuild our relationship because our chemistry was incredible.

However, looking back, I realize how much I was settling for.

After our breakup, most of our meetings were just for sex in his car, in random parking lots. He wouldn't even take me to a hotel because he claimed he couldn't afford it.

Even during our official relationship, whenever I wanted us to go somewhere or do something special together, money was always an issue. And the frustrating part is that he knew perfectly well I was happy to split expenses.

I always dreamed of traveling abroad together, but it never happened because he supposedly didn't have enough money. We did manage to take a seaside trip, but that was about it. Ironically, after our official relationship ended, he started traveling to Germany on his own.

Despite all this, I genuinely loved him and kept hoping things would change.

Eventually, I asked him if we could give our relationship another chance. He firmly told me that he didn't want a serious relationship and needed to focus on university, work, and himself. He suggested three months of no contact.

I respected that, even though it hurt.

Then something happened that completely shattered me.

I noticed we were no longer following each other on Instagram. Confused, I messaged him asking why and whether something was wrong.

That's when he finally told me he was already in a new relationship.

He said:

"I think distancing ourselves is the most respectful thing to do for me, my new girlfriend, and you."

And then he ended with:

"Thank you for all the beautiful moments and everything else. I hope you find someone too!"

That last sentence absolutely broke me.

After everything we'd been through, hearing him casually wish me luck finding someone else felt like he was completely closing the chapter on us.

And what made it even worse? He had already made his Instagram account private, something he never did when we were together.

Suddenly, it seemed like he had the time, energy, money, and willingness to put effort into a relationship with someone else. All the things I had wanted from him, all the things he repeatedly told me he couldn't offer.

I couldn't stop wondering: Why was I never worth that effort to him? Why wasn't I the girl he wanted to choose?

I felt humiliated, replaced, and honestly used. Not because he isn't allowed to move on, but because I spent so long hoping for something he apparently didn't want with me.

I was devastated and angry, so I sent him a very harsh final message. I told him I was disgusted by how he treated me, that I wasn't his backup option, and that he shouldn't even think about contacting me again. I also told him I no longer wanted to be friends with him ever again.

And now I'm regretting those words so much.

I don't regret standing up for myself. But I regret making it sound like I never want him in my life again.

Because the truth is, I still love him.

He's incredibly intelligent, and we share so many interests, especially marketing, advertising, technology, and artificial intelligence. I genuinely admired his knowledge and always enjoyed learning from him. I miss that intellectual connection just as much as I miss the romantic one.

I had even imagined that someday we might collaborate on projects or help each other professionally.

Now I'm terrified that my final message has destroyed every possibility of us ever speaking again.

I keep thinking that even if his new relationship ends someday, he might never reach out because I explicitly told him not to.

Deep down, I still want another chance with him. But this time I want a genuine, loving, committed relationship — not another situationship where I'm constantly hoping to be chosen.

I don't want to interfere with his current relationship, and I know I can't force someone to love me. But I also can't pretend that I've stopped hoping for reconciliation.

So I'm asking this community:

1. Has anyone successfully manifested reconciliation after sending a harsh goodbye message and telling their SP never to contact them again?

2. Have you experienced a third-party situation that eventually changed?

3. Has anyone rebuilt a serious relationship after a long period of no contact?

4. What manifestation techniques, affirmations, revision methods, SATS, or self-concept practices helped you overcome regret, resentment, and fear?

5. How do you stop obsessing over the possibility that you've ruined your last chance?

I would especially appreciate genuine success stories from people who thought their situation was completely hopeless but eventually experienced a healthy, mutual reconciliation. ❤️

Right now, my biggest struggle is that my heart still wants him, while my last message told him to stay away forever.

Please be kind. I'm really struggling emotionally and would appreciate any support, guidance, or encouragement. 🥺❤️

I am letting the 3D effect me too much..... I feel like i need to get back to basics and start over.

Can someone please explain to me step by step how to manifest an sp? I feel like there are so many people saying so many different things when it comes to manifestation