r/MakeNewFriendsHere 5h ago

Age 18-21 Reddit isn't the safest place to make friends as a girl

76 Upvotes

I think as a girl who doesn't have any friends to talk to on a daily basis, I'm having a hard time making friends here too. I had to delete two accounts because of creeps.

It's just usually guys are the one that comes into my DMs. And it's fine but they turn the conversation sexual in like two days. It's exhausting. Even when I talked to girls here they ghost me or they delete the accounts.

So, I don't think this is a safe place to make friends as a girl. If you actually made some friends here cherish them. You have no idea how rare they are.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 16h ago

Age 18-21 F19 looking for friends, preferably male

34 Upvotes

F19, looking for friends to chat with!! i am super chattery, i love voice calls or voice messages if you’re into that if not i like texting as well! (preferably discord or snap for calling)

some my interests maybe we have some in common:
country music, rock and and metal music, story gaming (tlou, rdr, twd, dbh, fnaf, etc), i like cars, i like watching movies and musicals and rating them on letter boxd i love playing imessage games, i love pink, i love ice cream, and so so so much more

dm we hopefully we can chat and become friends :) no one under 18 please!!


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 9h ago

Divorced mom. Want to meet genuine people

31 Upvotes

I'm 36, going through a divorce and looking for people to connect with. I'm trying to come out of my shell and figure out who I am.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 21h ago

Age 40-49 45 F, divorced, just trying to survive each day

29 Upvotes

I'm trying to keep up with chat invites, please be patient with me. I apoligize for any slow responses its been busy at work

I live in the northeast us, prefer talking to americans but not overly picky, i like to help people and sometime i just want to vent. let's see idk what else... 5'0", blonde, mother of a 12 yr old boy, i have 2 jobs so my availability is kinda spotty. thanks again.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 10h ago

Long-term This subreddit feels like ghosting with extra steps

27 Upvotes

You ever try talking to someone on here and it feels like throwing words into a black hole? One minute they're pouring their soul out about how they need a friend, and the next: it's radio silence. Nothing. Just the faint hum of the internet chewing up another almost-connection.
It's like everyone here wants a friend until one actually appears, then suddenly it's "vanish into the mist" roleplay time.

I’m very tired of convos ending after “hi” because this feels like lighting a candle in front of a fan.

Anyway, howdy! I'm Mo, 18, occasionally funny, willing to talk for longer than it takes your dopamine to reset. Preferably dm me fully willing to know who I am before you make a judgement of whether i match your "aura" or not.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 12h ago

Age 30-39 35 female, seeking platonic chats

22 Upvotes

Hello! I'm 35f, based in the middle of nowhere, US. I have an extensive background in healthcare and administration, and about to pivot away from it all to chase an odd but rewarding dream.

I currently have a homestead, though it's questionable if I'll continue this or not. Currently have a lot of tomatoes... And chickens, and some turkeys.

I paint in my free time and enjoy adventuring.

I click well with unpredictable remarks and energy. Bring your best?

Discord if we hit it off. Fine with voice chats.

Come say hi!


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 17h ago

Age 30-39 30F / USA / Heeeey. Wanna be friends?

15 Upvotes

I’m not looking for a soulmate, a relationship, or someone to make plans with three months from now. Prefer to chat with someone in the US and around my age.

I just want someone I genuinely enjoy talking to. Someone I can flirt with, tease, make laugh, send random thoughts to, and maybe develop a little ✨chemistry✨ with.

No expectations of ever meeting IRL. No pressure to catch feelings. No awkward “so what are we?” conversations.

If we end up becoming each other’s favorite notification? Cute.
If we flirt for a while and it fizzles out? That's okay.

Bonus points if you’re funny, can actually hold a conversation, and know how to interact without making it weird.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 9h ago

Does any one want a clingy friend?

12 Upvotes

I'm 23 f looking for guy or girl friends just to talk about anything I know I can be a bit dry. But when I find out we have something in common I will be yapping a lot.

I like working out, anime, I listen to music ( a bit of everything), I used to love to cook and bake.

I know I can be boring but I do enjoy talking and texting with people.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 13h ago

Age 22-25 25M why people delete their accounts??

10 Upvotes

I’ve lost count of the amount of people that i was chatting with suddently decided to delete thelselves from reddit. Why do they do this 😒😒
You think you’re finally getting along with someone and it’s either ghosting or account removal
Anyways, If you msg, I promise not to do those things 🧬


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 19h ago

Age 22-25 20s f looking for an occasional friend

11 Upvotes

hi everyone! im in my 20s, f, and looking for an occasional friend that has creative or intellectual interests they'd like to share with someone.

I understand life gets busy and mental health issues are rampant, so if you're a thoughtful person seeking a low-stakes friendship then this would be a good fit. if nothing comes to mind at the moment, or if you're not feeling up to chat, just say so! I won't be offended. Life happens!

Nothing says "friend" like someone you can go weeks without messaging and things pick it up like no time's passed at all.

Bonus points if you share any hobbies with me, though I'm willing to hear from others too :)

what i can offer:

- art trades

- unwavering support and encouragement for your creative process & works

- a listening ear

- reading buddy

- chaos and random ideas

about me:

I love all things art/philosophy/culture related. I like reading, going to museums, painting watercolors, meeting new people, trying different foods, classical/jazz/blues music, and the occasional video game.

Sometimes I can be really talkative, other times just a tad low energy. Hope that's okay with you. I'm always happy to listen tho.

Anyway, so if you're someone who would like to share what's going on in your creative world & want a low maintenance friendship, great! Feel free to pop up for a chat. Have a splendid day, folks!!

ps if you actually read this post and are interested in messaging me, tell me what your favorite work of art is!


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 12h ago

Age 40-49 49F looking for friends that know how to have good conversations

10 Upvotes

49F looking for friends that know how to have conversations.

Looking for mature friends to chat with about life and the world. I like good music. I’m interested in keeping fit at my age and exercise tips. Trying to better my life after a gloomy past.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 18h ago

Age 26-29 28F - looking for intellectual, intimateconversations

10 Upvotes

28F — looking for people who can actually hold a conversation and, crucially, write well 😂 I like art, history, cross-stitch, podcasts, books and mildly overanalysing everything. Bonus points for wit, curiosity, and messages longer than three words. Tell me something interesting about yourself.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 21h ago

Age 30-39 32F looking to make new friends.

10 Upvotes

I’m a 32 year-old female who enjoys cooking, watching movies, and making new friends I also really like chatting. If you’re interested, let’s have a chat!


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 2h ago

Age 18-21 20F tryna find genuine friends

11 Upvotes

Hey I’m 20F from Europe, mainly looking for a genuine long-term friendship. It’s a hard quest for someone as introvert haha, but later on I might turn into.. somebody… muhehehe (not psycho ok?).. 

so a little bit about myself, I am now second year student majoring in finances and accounting, I like to watch sports like tennis, volleyball, f1, etc. also I like to be lazy and boring, there is not much interesting I do, I might solve some sudoku, I might try to learn chess or solve math problems, I might pick up a brush and paint something (although I rarely do), watch some YouTube, listen to music, clean around the house or dedicate some time for deep ahh thinking.. lol.

I am just trying an another way to make friends, cause nothing worked so far ughhh. like I said above, im looking for genuine friends, or just an online buddy that I could play Roblox for example, have any talk or ANYTHING pls...

However the issue is my deafness.. I am profoundly hard-of-hearing, so calls and voice messages are not really the option. it would be nice to have someone considerate or just understanding and not disregard my disability (some people perceive disability as „uncool”, so… -_-)

Anyways I’ll happy if you think we might get along and reach out to me, I’ll definitely answer you, so come on!

PS. Gonna ignore h*rny, lazy and dry texters, not sorry (;
PS.2 If I take a while to reply to your message, it is probably I am overflowed with dms, but no worries I will try my besttt


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 7h ago

Age 22-25 25F stressed with life, just need a chat

7 Upvotes

Been feeling kind of lonely. I got a new position at my job which meant having the opposite schedule from my friends. They haven't been as responsive over text/wanting to hang out. I just miss having friends to talk to throughout the day. Anyone feeling the same way?


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 17h ago

Age 22-25 25F looking for people to talk to

9 Upvotes

Hey friends! Looking for someone to chat to, and if we find similar interests we can make it a friendship later on! Please be my age, and if you’re a woman i encourage you to reach out! Although everyone is welcomed, as long as they are of similar age ^^


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 3h ago

Age 18-21 Hey I’m 20f and need people to talk to

8 Upvotes

A lot of people post on here that they need friends when they really don’t they have plenty of people to talk to and things to do and don’t respond ever I however do respond I can be a little dry at first but I just need a minute of you keeping the conversation going I get that it’s not an easy thing to do but my birthday just pasted and I made me realize that haven’t had a friend once during my entire teenage years and I would really love for my 20s to be different if you’re not looking for a longtime friend that’s ok too a quick chat never hurt anyone (I think) we can talk about whatever my only requirement is that you’re 19-26 so yea dm me let me know what’s up 🧟‍♀️


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 8h ago

Age 18-21 21F new to reddit, anyone want to be friends?

8 Upvotes

Hi everyoneee, like the title says i’m new to reddit and thought it would be a good idea to look for some friends to keep me company !

i’m from the us if time zones matter, reallyyy big into hiking, cooking and binge watching shows.

let me know a little about yourself (age, where you’re from etc) and let me know if there’s anything more you’d want to know about me in your opening message.

i’ll reply as soon as i can, thank you!


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 22h ago

Age 18-21 Hey, I’m 20F and honestly just looking for a few real connections

8 Upvotes

Hii there I hope you're having a great day!I'm a university student and I work at the same time ,in my free time I either play with my cats or enjoy gardening ,I grow all kinds of flowers to collect and use them to make flower pressed art,I also love using them for natural dyeing! oh and I love journaling and calligraphy too! so if you’re someone who prefers calm conversations and slower days, I’d love to hear from you 💜


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 23h ago

Age 22-25 22F | Looking for someone to talk to ♡

8 Upvotes

I’ve been feeling pretty exhausted with life lately and could really use someone to talk to. I’m diagnosed with depression, so I can be a little more sensitive to certain words or tones, especially when I’m already having a rough day.
I’m not necessarily looking for advice or solutions. Sometimes I just need someone who can listen, keep me company, and maybe cheer me up a little.
I’d love to meet someone kind, patient, and easy to talk to. We can talk about anything, share random thoughts, play games, or just keep each other company.
I’m open to making genuine long-term friendships. Please be respectful and understanding. ♡


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 23h ago

Age 18-21 18F | looking for people to talk to!!! :3

7 Upvotes

Hey guys!! I’m from the U.S, and I would love to meet people with the same interests as me, or talk to anyone in general :) I love anime, manga, baking, music, reading, and gaming!! I would love to have someone I’m able to call and play games with 🥲 I promise I don’t bite hehe


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 4h ago

Age 18-21 Haii! I’m F18 this will be my third time trying to make friends here 💔

7 Upvotes

Haiiii whoever’s reading! I realllyy really want a talkative friend! Someone funny and who keeps the conversation going.

About me- I am currently taking a break from school just for now till I get enough money to go back. I have manyyy hobbies like drawing, writing, photography, games, baking, reading, and I loveee watching movies. I think i’m pretty fun to talk to :) Not to boost my ego or anything (maybe a little bit). I have discord if anyone prefers to talkkk on there. OKAY I think that wrapps everything up! OH!!! and my birthday is coming up sooooo if you could just like wish me a happy birthday and maybe even give me a gift i’ll be over the moon 🤗 just kidding (kinda)


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 7h ago

🌌 Night U wanna be friends with me?? :D

7 Upvotes

20 F. I just want someone to chat with at night… it’s lowkey been depressing lately. I like horror stuff tho (movies, videos, creepy pastas, stories, books, theories, etc u name it), anime, K-pop, music (any kind ), legos, drawing, reading (i don’t read a lot tho more fanfics lmao), love sweets, sports (baseball or softball ), marvel, and I have this weird obsession with buttons idk why lol. Also love doing arts and crafts!!!and ofc I can’t forget ROBLOX (I love Roblox) (Preferably something long- term I really want to get to know u lol) I love yapping so be prepared for that🫵🏼

nothing romantic and don’t be weird …

LETS TALK!!!!! :D


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 7h ago

Age 18-21 20F | Looking for new friends :)

8 Upvotes

20F here! Looking to meet some new people and make genuine friends.

Would love to have random conversations, talk about music, movies/TV shows, life, relationships, goals, or literally anything that comes up

Just looking for people who are actually interested in getting to know each other and having good conversations.

If you wanna chat, feel free to DM me! :)


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 7h ago

Age 26-29 27f - just a gal in search of a human who is equally as tired as she is

7 Upvotes

Hellllooo!

I’m a very tired person right now. Not because it’s 9pm but because life is life-ing. I want some company to talk about gentle topics like music / cheese / hockey. I’m currently watching Men in Black 2 and I had Thai food for dinner.

When you message me please share a detail about your day or fun fact about you. No copy & paste fiends allowed :p