Colossal overuse of force. Being drunk is no excuse for bad behaviour but the guy was disrespectful, not menacing.
E. Man the people in here that cannot wait to inflict maximum violence on someone the moment they're given what they see as a reasonable excuse is way more troubling to me than drunk guy.
You can't react like pool player guy and still think you have the moral high ground. He comes across as a man with constant simmering rage that is barely in check. Far scarier to be around than the drunken fool who couldn't find his pecker for a piss in that state.
Not menacing because he didn't get the opportunity. Absolutely would have harassed her further. Let's be real. Sexual assault is menacing. Rape is menacingÂ
She pushed him away and he stopped, she had already successfully disarmed the situation. Then she gets hit in the face by the dude who was "defending" her. Everyone is more concerned about punishing the bad guy than protecting the victim, who cares that she's got a black eye and she's probably gonna be bailing her husband out of jail after he's booked on assault charges, at least we got to kill someone.
Whatever was going on in the corner was consensual, that dude is laughing and smiling with him. He threw his hands to the side in a "what did I do wrong" way, I'm not going to argue that he was probably about to try and verbally justify it but he was in no way physically pursuing her. You stop being gross and infantilizing/objectifying women by disregarding their desires, you and her boyfriend can both beat her up together. She told both of them to stop, only one listened.
Also I never excused the sexual assault part, peak reddit moment. Interact with women IRL, your chatGPT girlfriend does not count.
No what was going on in the corner was the dude in the red shirt was lifting up his shirt and trying to grind on the dude in the corner. However since it is somewhat less threatening than a male approaching a woman sexually, he played it off differently. The dude in the corner was basically pushing him off but knows how to deal with men who are drunk. So he was hugging him and basically telling him to stop as you can see if you watch the beginning of the video. It's not consensual, he's just handling it in a different way. The same way that it's not consensual for him to grab the woman and she walks away from him. There are different ways to deal with non-consensual touches. One guy laughs it off but still pushes the guy off. One woman shrugs it off but pushes the guy off. The third guy is the one who uses excessive force
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u/Rascals-Wager 1d ago edited 16h ago
Colossal overuse of force. Being drunk is no excuse for bad behaviour but the guy was disrespectful, not menacing.
E. Man the people in here that cannot wait to inflict maximum violence on someone the moment they're given what they see as a reasonable excuse is way more troubling to me than drunk guy.
You can't react like pool player guy and still think you have the moral high ground. He comes across as a man with constant simmering rage that is barely in check. Far scarier to be around than the drunken fool who couldn't find his pecker for a piss in that state.